"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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girl become attraced to you how ?

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hey how do you make a girl become attraced to you . i dont understand it . i read so much but its all not making sence . i am going to talk to my girl tonight on the phone i wana show her i know my sh^T so whats up can you all help me out on examples on this . thanks everybody
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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just be laid back and add some humor in and i dont mean desperate please laugh at my joke humor. i used to be bad at that but kinda relax act like your talking to one of your bros who you go partying but do ask some risky questions, sexual humor, ect. but you gotta have fun or else you will show her you think you know your s***
 
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Attraction is nebulous. It's something different for everybody. A woman has a few things on a list that turn her on or make her want to spend time with someone. Sure there are many things that most women like; sense of humor, life of the party, a leader.

Find out what she likes somehow. That may require talking to her friends OR...wait for it...being observant.

But, you can't pretend to have qualities that are attractive to her if you don't have them for very long. You'll end up looking like a phoney player who just wants to get into her pants. Some women can't see the forest for the sleeze but the smart ones do.
 
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