girl b1tching me out to new prospects?

[evil_tomato]

Hey guys,

got an issue going on here. How do you go about girls who rejected you in the past who are friends with your new prospects, and they constantly try and turn them against you by bringing you down and telling them how "no good you are" and how they "rejected you"

I have a few girls from my past that i was seeing vaguely who have rejected me and because they are friends with this new girl i am trying to get with they keep trying to turn her against me so she wont go for me =/ pathetic i know. But how do you get around that?

I really like this girl, i havent met her yet but we are suppose to be soon (We met on facebook) but i feel like this b1tches are turning her against me...:box:

what do i do?

 

[rhythmic]

How do you know that they're saying these things? If the girl is ratting out her friends for being *****y, chances are she isn't taking them that seriously.

Also if she's got anything at all in the brain department she'll know to ignore them.

What do you DO? Not a lot. Don't get dragged into any sort of b1tching contest or war of words, just be charming and fun to this girl and be generally dismissive of any mention of this b1tching. Or if you can pull off being confrontational, take it up with the girl who b1tches you out... But that's dangerous ground and I don't know enough about the situation to really advise it.

If she's a good girl she'll make up her own mind about you, and if she isn't, then who cares anyway?

 

[evil_tomato]

Because this new girl is coming back to me telling me all the sh1t theyre telling her saying that "im not that good" and "not to go for me" etc

 

[rhythmic]

What I said still stands - if she has half a brain, she'll want to find out for herself. Thinking about it, just the fact that they're reacting so strongly is good news - it'll probably intrigue her.

Be your best self around her though, and prove them wrong