"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl At Work

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Juggalo

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I have started to take a liking to a girl at my work. She's really cute...not the best body...but she's got a great attitude and she's a really nice girl. She has kind of seen the REAL me...the loser side...

I'm gonna be going somewhere with her to get to know her better on one of our off days...

Suggestions for what I SHOULDN'T do and SHOULD do would be really appreciated. I've never really gone out on a date to get to know a person...I always know them beforehand.

Thanks,
Juggalo aka Eric
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mafiosoman14

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The only and best thing you can do is act yourself you may think your a loser but your not your a genuine DJ and whatever you read on this will be subconciously applied to your date. dont worry about what you do you will be just fine, just look sharp, smell good, and be a Don Juan for that is what DJ's do. This whole forum is setup to help you on thing like this yes you will learn a few "tricks" you can apply but alot of things you read will move to your subconcious and you will automattically not do this or do that, trust me man youll do fine! Bueno Suerte
 
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