"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl At Work

Juggalo

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I have started to take a liking to a girl at my work. She's really cute...not the best body...but she's got a great attitude and she's a really nice girl. She has kind of seen the REAL me...the loser side...

I'm gonna be going somewhere with her to get to know her better on one of our off days...

Suggestions for what I SHOULDN'T do and SHOULD do would be really appreciated. I've never really gone out on a date to get to know a person...I always know them beforehand.

Thanks,
Juggalo aka Eric
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mafiosoman14

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The only and best thing you can do is act yourself you may think your a loser but your not your a genuine DJ and whatever you read on this will be subconciously applied to your date. dont worry about what you do you will be just fine, just look sharp, smell good, and be a Don Juan for that is what DJ's do. This whole forum is setup to help you on thing like this yes you will learn a few "tricks" you can apply but alot of things you read will move to your subconcious and you will automattically not do this or do that, trust me man youll do fine! Bueno Suerte
 
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