theres this girl i work with an we are the only 2 who are 16 everybody else is in there 30's+ well she always approaches me an starts the conv. but i need a way to see if she has a b/f or if she is instrested in me at all without making my feelings for her to obvios
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
girl at work
- Thread starter mvp21
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
werd to comment above. you dont have jack **** for this girl. stop treating her like a godess before you already know her. say hi. go along with the conversations. get her number. ask her out. go.go.go. this is assuming you can get another job if you **** up badly enough