"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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girl at work, really wierd!

Deadly_Assassin

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From experience a girl who has high interest in you will not keep mentioning her boyfriend over and over again
that is very true.

I walked past her at work yesterday and she was smiling at me and she said where her dinner. I laughed and said wheres mine? I kept teasing her and I slapped her ass with a glove. It was for sale in her store. But she said she would cook me dinner if she was single. I was like whats wrong with cooking dinner for me while you not single. We kept talking this way in a real teasing manner. There was another guy working in her store and she said that was her bf. I said yea whatever and just kept on doing what I was doing.

Some of my mates from work found out what was going on. Well I had to tell them cos they saw the flirting going on. And they were telling me how she keeps looking in my direction when I am around or near her store.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TesuqueRed

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the picture is clear and it's looking pretty good

keep us posted on progress

engage
escalate
close however you can :D

you have to make a move to close sooner or later, though, win lose or draw

at this point direct action counts more than anything else you can do. and you have a limited shelf life here
 

Deadly_Assassin

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yea she mentioned before how she wants to go out this weekend to town. I might ask if she wants to meet up with me there. If she says anthing about the bf, I will ask her to bring him along too.
 
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