Girl at Work is testing me

[zipperhead409]

So I met this girl at work who at the beginning was totally into me.

I work in a retail store (Macy's) and she used to always find excuses to come over and talk to me. She likes a lot of the same things that I do (LOTR, Star Wars, psychology of serial killers, and other nerdy stuff).

About two weeks ago, I went on a little twenty minute break with her and gave her a free movie ticket I had. My intention was to ask her out on a date but I told her I was giving it to her because they were two movies I didn't really want to see (memoirs of a geisha and fun with **** and jane).

She kept talking about how good geisha was going to be but I sort of just gave her a "meh" response because I didn't want to seem too needy, so then she started to talk about how good Fun with **** and Jane was going to be, which I thought was a signal for me to ask her out.

I asked her if she wanted to see it together (exact words, maybe I should have worded it differently) and she said sure.

But it's been two weeks now I haven't even been able to have a conversation with her until today.

I just hadn't found the right oppurtunity. Everytime I see her I'm with my friends coming back from lunch or something.

I sort of just said "hey" whenever I saw her.

She kept asking me to get her a christmas present but I didn't want to get her anything, not because i'm cheap but because that's one of Anti Dump's rules.

She asked me the other day (after me asking her out) what I was going to get her.

I answered with "Uh, I ain't getting you nothing" and laughed. She gave me a "I can't believe you just said that" kind of gasp and one of her friends and someone I was walking with responded the same way.

Was this handled the right way?

I asked her today if she still wanted to see it and she told me to go to myspace and find her info (she knows I have it too, i don't have any friends on it though because it was actually going to be used for a writing group that never worked out).

Maybe I could get some names so I won't seem like a complete loser?

Now I really don't know what to do. I know she's at least still a little interested in me but I want to progress into something more with her.

Please help.


Other info that might help:

I can't drive and I dont know how to break this to her. (i have a suspended license because of a DUI)

She's a 6.5 (a little chunky but very cute)

When I talk to her sometimes I notice that her pupils will start to enlarge in the middle of our convo's, something I heard is a sign of attracton.

I thought the Lord of the Rings movies were a little boring but I play it off like I kind of like it too.

 

[backbreaker]

She isn't testing you.. she doesn't like you.. slight difference.

To test reffers to giving, giving away, and juding the reaction. for example, me going on a date with a girl, her not calling me for a week to see how i will react.

Needless to say, this isn't a test.. just a girl having a little fun and bosting her ego.

At least you work at Macy's.

 

[cffrmw]

don't try and read so much into everything, just take her on a date, kiss her at the end. if she doesn't want to go on a date, find someone else.