"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girl at store.. Question about number close right away...

wordism

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Ok So I was in walgreens their was this cashier working there.. and she was ringing up the lady in front of her.. and I was looking at her.. and she noticed me looking at her real quick somehow and said "what..?"
lol I was suprised and said "huh" and she smiled a lil..

so the old lady out the way... and shes checking me out and goes "You better stop looking at me like that" lol so here I am a lil confused.. i go "What are you talking about" and she mocks me "What are youuu talking about" she was real wierd.. but it made her seem cool..
by the way she was like a 7.. I didn't plan on talking to her.. I don't make many cold approaches and thats where I'm weak..

anyways she bags my medicine and face soap and hands the bag.. I see that she is lightly saying "What are you talking about" as if she was talking to herself... lol I take the bags and go thank you and said some other ****..(I forgot)

I didn't know what her interest level was til she goes "comeeeee backkkk" while I was walking away... (it wasn't in a customer friendly type tone).. lol anywho while I was walking away and I go "alright" and smiled.. she still had a few people in line...
I know a long story for so few words..

but anywho I wanted to know did I do best by not number closing then?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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upsidedownside7

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Uhh what was your question?

She liked what she saw, acted stupid and you could have ****ed her, period. When a girl is acting like that, no need to even see where she is from and all that sh*t. If you wanted to bang her, just ask her what her name is and invite her somewhere like a pool room or something fun. Set a time, get the # and split. She was letting you know she's game. Something I'm learning now is.....to be a successful ladies man, your going to have to get your ego out of the way. That means face the possibility of rejection and puting in the effort. Normal hot girls will outrightly ask you out.

Don't sweat it, you don't need to live in a fantasy world craving the "ability" to pick up every woman from the street. This board is good but it'll take some patience and logic to get comfertable with this.
 

upsidedownside7

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NO!!!!!!

Do not go back! It's retarded to quote Pook but "aim higher". If a chick goes ga ga over you without even knowing you, that says more about her than you.

To be honest with you, I doubt your the first guy she's ever acted like that with and to come back to ask her out gives this entire interaction more meaning than it's worth. To you she is only a "7" anyways.

Moral of the story: Let this die and when a girl is this flirty ask her out immediately!
 

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Originally posted by wordism
Ok So I was in walgreens their was this cashier working there.. and she was ringing up the lady in front of her.. and I was looking at her.. and she noticed me looking at her real quick somehow and said "what..?"
lol I was suprised and said "huh" and she smiled a lil..

so the old lady out the way... and shes checking me out and goes "You better stop looking at me like that" lol so here I am a lil confused.. i go "What are you talking about" and she mocks me "What are youuu talking about" she was real wierd.. but it made her seem cool..
by the way she was like a 7.. I didn't plan on talking to her.. I don't make many cold approaches and thats where I'm weak..

anyways she bags my medicine and face soap and hands the bag.. I see that she is lightly saying "What are you talking about" as if she was talking to herself... lol I take the bags and go thank you and said some other ****..(I forgot)

I didn't know what her interest level was til she goes "comeeeee backkkk" while I was walking away... (it wasn't in a customer friendly type tone).. lol anywho while I was walking away and I go "alright" and smiled.. she still had a few people in line...
I know a long story for so few words..

but anywho I wanted to know did I do best by not number closing then?
Those encounters are few and far between and can catch you off guard ... but always be prepared

I'd have gotten her number , asked her what time she got off, then written my number down on a piece of that register tape for her and said "when u get off at 'time' give me a holla..... talk to ya soon" and then just walked off

Its a hit or miss , but I guarantee you ... she wanted sex
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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