This girl I go to school with (and am casual friends with) called things with the guy she had been with for a while. She is a pretty forward girl and she was talking about how she was looking for a casual / no strings attached hookup when we were at dinner today. I would like that casual hook up to be me. It doesn't seem like I would have to game her too much but I'm not sure how exactly to handle the situation as its not an approach and she seems pretty open to any opportunity that presents itself at this point.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Girl at school
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