"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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girl at school

lil hooligan

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sorry for posting in discussion and not high school forum but only 4 viewing that

there is this lass at school she is nice and i really like her, yeh, were mate's aswell, should i just like flirty with her or what, could do with some advice, tap back

p.s. im from england, skool is different from america or w/e
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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lil hooligan

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what so like when im stood next to her put my arm round her or hug her or, like pinch her ass that sort of stuff
 

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lil hooligan said:
what so like when im stood next to her put my arm round her or hug her or, like pinch her ass that sort of stuff
If you want to freak her out/go to jail yes.

Just talk to her, tell her you think she's cute and that you two should go out for a bite to eat sometime. Then ask her number. That's it.
 

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she has randomly come up to me outside school and hugged me infront of all her mates and today at school came up to me in pe and said "i thought id come over here with you for a bit" and also we exchanged looks and smiles
 

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oh, and she has also worn my chain for a week.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MisterMcGee

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So what, she's interested and that means you don't have to do anything? Please. Get physical. After a hug, hold her arm for a while as you ask her how she's been, etc. Be awesome
 
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