"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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neonlimited

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Hey,

Okay, there is this girl at my work, I wanna hang out with her, but I dont think shes interested really. I've done everything DJ so far except kino, and i've basically ran out of things to talk about, how should I go about giving her a hint that I wanna hang out with her?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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penkitten

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no no no

dont date co workers.

its nothing but drama.

do flirt and have fun:)
 

neonlimited

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man dont worry the managers are cool as hell they are like 20 and buy me alcohol all the time and sometimes i goto the same parties as them, i just need some advice on how to show this girl that i wanna hang out with her, im a lifegaurd and every1 is friendly and alot hang out with eachother
 

aftershock

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This is in the High School forum, so I'm assuming its a part time job.

Go for it. You can always get another part time job if things take a turn for the worse.

Summary:

$500k a year businessman - do not fvck your secretary
$5.00 an hour McDonalds worker - fvck as many as you can!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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