“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Girl asks you: "Why do you want to have sex with me?"

d9930380

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 25, 2005
Messages
669
Reaction score
6
Anyway I shagged her but I don't think my answer did me any favours. Lets be honest, she was a ****. I met her that night and yes I got on with her and had alot of fun but I was moving away.

What I said was:

"I think people can meet each other and although it's only for a night that doesn't mean it can't be a special night".

Or someother wishy washy bull**** like that (I think what I said was even worse), basically I tried to get all romantic and mushy (the exctasy didn't help) where I think I would have been better off just saying:

"We get on, you turn me on and I know you wanna **** me"

I would normally be more romantic but I also don't want a LTGF. This question also applies when I don't have an excuse for not being there the next morning. And I know that given the fact she's sleeping with me on the first night probably indicates she's a slut, that doesn't matter because I like the romance and intimacy.

I don't like the idea of pretending I will be there after the 1-night stand, I did that once and REALLY hurt a girl. I won't do it again just to get my hole.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

speed dawg

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 9, 2006
Messages
4,735
Reaction score
1,222
Location
The Dirty South
Stop posting
 

Latinoman

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 21, 2006
Messages
4,028
Reaction score
57
I cannot believe I posted such a long post and put that much effort in that other thread you created.
 

d9930380

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 25, 2005
Messages
669
Reaction score
6
Sorry, why?

I was asked that question at the weekend. I felt like she was a bit weirded out by my answer and wanted to know what the right thing was to say.
 

d9930380

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 25, 2005
Messages
669
Reaction score
6
Latinoman - I'm grateful off your other post (I just read it), I certainly was the one who trusted 100% guy and did get hurt however this is exactly what I'm talking about. It feels weird for me to just "****", so it feels doubly weird admitting that to a girl. I've never been the type of guy to sleep around. Right now that's sort of what I want but I don't want to manipulate her into bed and I also don't want to come across as a pig. Isn't that a catch-22 situation. Maybe she asked it because she had insecurities however if I wanted to have sex with her. Wasn't that enough.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Top