“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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smileydts

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A couple days ago I posted something like this and all you master DJs were too tongue-tied to help this noob. But I have a new question now, and to up the stakes, if you guys don't respond I'm sending her flowers and texting her that I love her.

Been on 2 dates with a girl. She asked to meet for coffee after work--good idea? Also floated the idea of going with her and a group of friends to some art/film thing. Good idea?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DonJuan11

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smileydts said:
A couple days ago I posted something like this and all you master DJs were too tongue-tied to help this noob. But I have a new question now, and to up the stakes, if you guys don't respond I'm sending her flowers and texting her that I love her.

Been on 2 dates with a girl. She asked to meet for coffee after work--good idea? Also floated the idea of going with her and a group of friends to some art/film thing. Good idea?


Going with her and a group of friends to some art thing? Are you crazy? Why would you want to add 100 distractions to your date? She should be focused on you the whole time while you are with her. She can't do that when her friends are telling her about how they slept with their boyfriends on the weekend. You don't want to bring any distractions to your date until she is in love with you.

Why does she want to meet? Unless you are going to engage in massive tongue wrestling with her, forget it, but if you are going to make a serious move on the coffee date, go for it. If not, take your sister for some coffee, at least she may pay for it.
 

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"But I have a new question now, and to up the stakes, if you guys don't respond I'm sending her flowers and texting her that I love her."

^^^haha that's actually pretty funny...I like the way you think.

If you haven't at least made out with this girl, don't do a group date..that will set you back in progress. You can accept coffee, but be prepared to have another location that you "just remembered you wanted to show her." Or, better still, ask her to do something less lame and more intimate in place of coffee. On a third date, you need to definitely be kissing her, and it's up to YOU to make that happen. Most likely, she'll go along with any suggestion you come up with, because she KNOWS this.
 
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