"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl asks "What do you think about me?"

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so long story short... met this girl at a disco made out, got her number she got mine, she texted me...

later we texted and after a few texts she asked me

HB: What do you think about me?

ME: well... I don't know you so well yet... I think you're fine... but a bit annoying :p

anyway this happened to me with another girl too some months ago... is that a sign of insecurity or just some trick?
also was my answer good or what would you suggest?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sounds like a **** test to see if you're gonna say "Oh you're the coolest girl I've ever met I can't wait to get to know you even better!!!"

Your answer was fine. or something else like... "Well I think you're about 5 foot 4, female, blue eyes, and like to wear jeans. Is there anything else I should know about you?! :p"
 
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I would say "I don't know you well enough to answer that yet.
Let's meet for coffee/drinks/whatever".
 
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