"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girl asks "What do you think about me?"

NobodyCares1

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so long story short... met this girl at a disco made out, got her number she got mine, she texted me...

later we texted and after a few texts she asked me

HB: What do you think about me?

ME: well... I don't know you so well yet... I think you're fine... but a bit annoying :p

anyway this happened to me with another girl too some months ago... is that a sign of insecurity or just some trick?
also was my answer good or what would you suggest?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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GQ Scott

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Sounds like a **** test to see if you're gonna say "Oh you're the coolest girl I've ever met I can't wait to get to know you even better!!!"

Your answer was fine. or something else like... "Well I think you're about 5 foot 4, female, blue eyes, and like to wear jeans. Is there anything else I should know about you?! :p"
 

zekko

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I would say "I don't know you well enough to answer that yet.
Let's meet for coffee/drinks/whatever".
 
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