"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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girl asks if im gay??

SoSuaveDude

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Okay so there's this girl I work with that I believe subtly likes me. She often smiles and laughs a lot around and even more, she does subtle touches. For example if in a spot she needs to access, she will touch me as if she's moving me aside. We even play little game where we try to catch each other off guard, and kick the reverse side of our kneecaps to make are leg unsturdy. I know this crap has little meaning, but if I was repulsive I know she wouldn't ever do subtle touches. She even rubbed through my hair when I was counting numbers for the register. Last week after our shift we play fought outside and things got a bit touchy feely. I know this sounds super childish lol :lol: .

Anyway we were talking, and she randomly asks me if there are any hot girls at the college I attend, and I ask her why does it matter. Why do you want to know of hot girls, and then she says its just question, downplays it, then asks and proceeds to suggest that I must be gay considering that I never heavily flirt with female coworkers or talk of women in general.

This really caught me off guard, I never had a woman propose that idea to me lol. But even worse, I thought woman had interest in me, I'm confused, why she throw m e this curve ball. Any ideas? I like her so where do I go from here??
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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SeymourCake

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You're obviously not showing the affection she is expecting from you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sir, this is, you'll be happy to hear, one of the GREENEST LIGHTS POSSIBLE....

GO FOR IT!!! NOW!!!!!

The Gambler
 
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She thinks you are attractive and is hinting why you aren't hitting on her, stupid.
 

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BeginningDJ said:
She thinks you are attractive and is hinting why you aren't hitting on her, stupid.
Rep.


Come on SoSuaveDude....you CAN'T BE this oblivious to women's signals.
 

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If it was a guy asking you, then you would have something to ask here about!
Theres threads dedicated to just this, alls you gots to do is use the 'search' function!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Guys I'm not that oblivious, just never been questioned on my sexuality and even accused of being gay. Yes I know her kino and other signs show interest but I don't follow on why she asked me about other women being hot also.
 

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^^^really? shes interested, wondering why youre not, and shes trying to figure out your type, and offering up pretty girls for your judgement to see where she falls in your 'hot or not' scale.


^ or where she considers herself to fall on that scale anyway.
 

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Best thing I've found is when a girl asks you about other hot girls, tell her. Exaggerate. Even if you don't know any hot girls (which I sincerely hope you do), make some up. Get into real detail about how hot they are. It'll make her go green with envy and she'll start trying to get you to think she's hot aswell ;)
 

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Dekg140 said:
Best thing I've found is when a girl asks you about other hot girls, tell her. Exaggerate. Even if you don't know any hot girls (which I sincerely hope you do), make some up. Get into real detail about how hot they are. It'll make her go green with envy and she'll start trying to get you to think she's hot aswell ;)
lol was going to do that, but I considered that route might be overkill and she'll assume I'm disinterested. Either way, I will game her, and will escalate my kino, and sexual conversation with her and see where things lead.
 

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Bro if you were disinterested she would most likely want you more if she asked me about hot girls at college I'd say yea there has been a lot but I'm getting sick of all the college party girls they come a dime a dozen
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SoSuaveDude said:
Okay so there's this girl I work with that I believe subtly likes me.
LOL. very subtly. i heard a story about a guy who had a girl lying naked on top of him and he didnt do anything because he honestly thought she just wanted to warm up her body. haha. was that you?
 

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LOL. very subtly. i heard a story about a guy who had a girl lying naked on top of him and he didnt do anything because he honestly thought she just wanted to warm up her body. haha. was that you?
Haha oh my
 

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Lol explain?

When a girl asks if your gay she is 1. thinking of you in a sexual way. 2. wondering why the hell you arent giving her attention like all the other dudes around her. 3. wants you so bad but doesnt want to outright say it to you in plain english. 4. Wants to find out your type.

Does that clear things up, now get her.
 

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Thanks brahs, I will escalate with her when I see her
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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