"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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girl asks if i'd meet to fuk?

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how the hell do i answer that.

her: would you meet to fuk?
me: what?
her: well you always talk dirty so i'm wondering. is that what ur after?
me: i can be ur fuk buddy, ur best friend, ur bf. whatever you want

at this stage i think i fuked up. i only said that cause i heard it in a movie. lol.

her: indirect answer
me: if you asked me to fuk, i would. if you asked me to hang out, i would.
her: k

.... ?? we are still talking the same as usual... nothings changed but wtf was all that about. did i screw up?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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you cant decide what you want?

Women dont like that.....
 

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the only reason i have trouble with these kinda questions is if i say the truth they will leave. if the girl liked me and i just said i wanted to fuk her she wouldn't talk no more. if the girl just wanted to fuk and i said i liked her. she wouldn't talk no more. you get me? kind of no win situation. that's why i said both to her.
 

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chance- said:
the only reason i have trouble with these kinda questions is if i say the truth they will leave. if the girl liked me and i just said i wanted to fuk her she wouldn't talk no more. if the girl just wanted to fuk and i said i liked her. she wouldn't talk no more. you get me? kind of no win situation. that's why i said both to her.
Maybe she'd leave. Or maybe she'd try to prove to you that she's better than a girl you just f**k.

Girls leave when they're bored. That's it. And there's nothing boring about trying to f**k her.
 

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chance- said:
how the hell do i answer that.

her: would you meet to fuk?
me: What's the address?
There.

And stop telling women that you can be their best friend.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mantis Toboggan said:
Maybe she'd leave. Or maybe she'd try to prove to you that she's better than a girl you just f**k.

Girls leave when they're bored. That's it. And there's nothing boring about trying to f**k her.
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me: i can be ur fuk buddy, ur best friend, ur bf. whatever you want

You sound like a chump and you need serious help. A girl asks you if you wanna get ****ed and you basically say "Well I don't know...maybe if that's what you want"
 

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haha chance, you had a chance.

Just next time say "Yes" and escalate.

Actually you still have a chance, just meet her and **** her.

Girls aren't naive. They know you want to fuk them and it feels good to them when a man they want to **** wants to **** them back harder. Chances are if she is asking this question she isn't afraid of the answer.

There is a chance she wants an ego boost, but still I would rather be the guy who said he wants to **** than the one who wants to be her best friend.
 
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her: would you meet to fuk?
me: Give me a time and I'll see if I can fit you in on my schedule
 
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chance- said:
her: would you meet to fuk?
me: yea let's go, i'll be at your place in an hour.


THAT IS IT!!!

I can't believe that you are THIS big of a pvssy, that you actually need to analyze any of this.........you sound like you have ZERO confidence that a woman would want to have sex with you, and you are just shocked and surprised that a woman actually shows you this much interest.

If a chick wants to have sex, don't ****ing tell her that you could be her boyfriend or her bestfriend.......are you just a moron? If a horny chick sees that you might get attached, she will move on to someone else who actually can fvck her brains out with no strings attached.

Grow up, you pvssy!
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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me: yea let's go, i'll be at your place in an hour.


THAT IS IT!!!

I can't believe that you are THIS big of a pvssy, that you actually need to analyze any of this.........you sound like you have ZERO confidence that a woman would want to have sex with you, and you are just shocked and surprised that a woman actually shows you this much interest.

If a chick wants to have sex, don't ****ing tell her that you could be her boyfriend or her bestfriend.......are you just a moron? If a horny chick sees that you might get attached, she will move on to someone else who actually can fvck her brains out with no strings attached.

Grow up, you pvssy!
Hopefully he'll learn from that. I mean seeeeriously
 

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she still would of asked, is that what ur after. btw you guys could ease up and stop calling me names.. just some advice would do thanks :p

she just come out of a two year relationship so im guessing she actually does just wanna fuk. damn im dumb!

i didn't know if she meant to meet her aswell. i thought she just meant in general .. to meet someone off the internet for a fuk. that's why i didn't answer properly.

arrg now i can't stop thinking about this... maybe she wanted to meet up for a fuk. i feel like sh!t all day when i fuk up these things!!!!! i just didnt wanna answer wrong cause i do kinda like her.. ii didn't wanna say yes because i was scared she might block me (very lame yes) but we been talkin for ages and if i just said yea i wanna fuk you and she blocked me.. all that chat would of been for nothing.
 

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Why did you take her seriously. Taking a girl seriously is a mistake.

her: would you meet to fuk?
me: what?
her: well you always talk dirty so i'm wondering. is that what ur after?
me: no i dont like sex.
or..
me: i'm into guys
me: im not that easy
me: is that all you think about?
me: i like computers
me: my fav colour is black.
me: haha
me: (no reply)
best answer me: yes

ANY response that doesnt show EFFORT is gold. Your first response was (even tho gay) good because she knew you were dodging the question! She immediately labeled you as an ass: thats where you want to be. Being an ass is the perfect response to anything a girl can come up with.

her: indirect answer
me: if you asked me to fuk, i would. if you asked me to hang out, i would.
her: k

^ you took her seriously, you gave her an actual answer, you lost the game. This was just a silly sh** test. She wants you to be scared of her leaving, but that's actually a myth. Girls dont leave guys that are bad for them- they fall in love with them.

Could have been worst, you could have said 'no i'm a nice guy i care about feelings'.
 

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lol this girls doin my head in. on her facebook it says "blah blah is single and not interested in guys" i think thats cause of me being a rude assh0le too her the past couple nights over the phone. i been callin her dirty b!tch and come over babes.. lets fuk like you wanted to! and she just ignores me now... she still wont gimme her number to meet me so meh. dunno what to do now.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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Ease said:
me: i'm into guys
Dude, please don't ever say that one.
 
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chance- said:
lol this girls doin my head in. on her facebook it says "blah blah is single and not interested in guys" i think thats cause of me being a rude assh0le too her the past couple nights over the phone. i been callin her dirty b!tch and come over babes.. lets fuk like you wanted to! and she just ignores me now... she still wont gimme her number to meet me so meh. dunno what to do now.

Based on your thread history, I think the issue here is YOU, not HER.

Maybe you're creepy and she was just fvcking around with you?
 

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When you get a text like that you say "what time? And what's your address?". Then you let it go. It could be a test, a joke, or just horny in the moment.
 
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This guy's whole mindset is a total mess, he needs to work on that first - he needs to see himself as a sexual god that he KNOWS all women want........instead, he sounds like a nice guy who is shocked that a chick would dare utter the words "wanna fvck?"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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