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girl asking me to pick her up and fuss i got no car

joe45

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anyone h ere meet a girl from day2 and you go out one or 2 times and she wants you to have a car. to pick her up . i mainly tell girls to meet me at starbucks in downtown on this street at this time but a few girls i met who are chinese ask me if had a car and i said NO and wanted me to drive and pick them up from their house.

also another girl ------ one i went out with 2 xs she fuss always like when will i get a car and how much i got for a car. she always complain i had no car.

anyone here have this problem

i know some guys say oh next here and this and that but thats easy if you get lot of girls coming in from sarging or online game. i dont

I attract lot of gold diggers or materialistic girls/ want guy have car and like nice finer things in life like nice cars and stuff and im not rich at all. i just bus and transit.
 

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She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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joe45 said:
anyone h ere meet a girl from day2 and you go out one or 2 times and she wants you to have a car. to pick her up . i mainly tell girls to meet me at starbucks in downtown on this street at this time but a few girls i met who are chinese ask me if had a car and i said NO and wanted me to drive and pick them up from their house.

also another girl ------ one i went out with 2 xs she fuss always like when will i get a car and how much i got for a car. she always complain i had no car.

anyone here have this problem

i know some guys say oh next here and this and that but thats easy if you get lot of girls coming in from sarging or online game. i dont

I attract lot of gold diggers or materialistic girls/ want guy have car and like nice finer things in life like nice cars and stuff and im not rich at all. i just bus and transit.
I dont know how it is over where you are but I usually use cabs, I know its easier for me to say since i'm in NYC but maybe shell out a little extra for a cab to get around for that night. Plus you can flirt in the back seat.
 

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Well if you are actually from vancouver then every second girl in van is a gold digger so better get used to it, Especially in the downtown area.
 

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CaptainSaveAh0 said:
Well if you are actually from vancouver then every second girl in van is a gold digger so better get used to it, Especially in the downtown area.

how do you know this and who told you? oh the asian ones or white ones

and which city is less gold digger????

osaka? or where?????
 

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I'm also from NYC so I wouldn't know how it feels. Every guy and girl here takes subway. But do these girls in Canada live by themselves? Do they work? I would absolutely rip on them...
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

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Nickface said:
I'm also from NYC so I wouldn't know how it feels. Every guy and girl here takes subway. But do these girls in Canada live by themselves? Do they work? I would absolutely rip on them...

no they dont live by themselves and some work part time and one doesnt even have a job for 3 years and living at home at 26
 

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no they dont live by themselves and some work part time and one doesnt even have a job for 3 years and living at home at 26
Well since they are girls, they can get away with that more than guys can despite being past a certain age
 

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joe45 said:
no they dont live by themselves and some work part time and one doesnt even have a job for 3 years and living at home at 26
launght at then and ask then so you do have a car? then toss at her face sorry girl I don't date carless chicks and move on, since tehy will do this to you when you notice this will happen do it first, make it for the laughts and see what happen, sometimes you need to make tests to see how it works.


PS, canada is really that bad for dating? I do heard history about how girls are there....
 

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How are you going to pick her up and bang her at her place when you have no car? When you're dating you should have a car. If you don't have a vehicle women will look down upon you. Those are the facts.
 

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joe45 said:
anyone h ere meet a girl from day2 and you go out one or 2 times and she wants you to have a car. to pick her up . i mainly tell girls to meet me at starbucks in downtown on this street at this time but a few girls i met who are chinese ask me if had a car and i said NO and wanted me to drive and pick them up from their house.

also another girl ------ one i went out with 2 xs she fuss always like when will i get a car and how much i got for a car. she always complain i had no car.

anyone here have this problem

i know some guys say oh next here and this and that but thats easy if you get lot of girls coming in from sarging or online game. i dont

I attract lot of gold diggers or materialistic girls/ want guy have car and like nice finer things in life like nice cars and stuff and im not rich at all. i just bus and transit.
Tell them to pound sand.

If you live in a major metro city (which you do), you definitely dont need a car to date. A woman expecting you to have one can move on to the next guy. Next this broad. Jeez, cabs and public transit are more than enough in a big city.

If you were in the burbs like me, then I would say get a car.
 

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goldengoose said:
How are you going to pick her up and bang her at her place when you have no car? When you're dating you should have a car. If you don't have a vehicle women will look down upon you. Those are the facts.
if her IL is high i dont think that matters. i have friends who are dating and dont have car, so i guess your theory is wrong

@OP there's plenty of fish in the sea, hopefully not shallow as those women. normally older independent women, 25's + do have a car, so you must aim higher.
 

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ImprovingJuan said:
if her IL is high i dont think that matters. i have friends who are dating and dont have car, so i guess your theory is wrong

@OP there's plenty of fish in the sea, hopefully not shallow as those women. normally older independent women, 25's + do have a car, so you must aim higher.
No my theory is not wrong. Every man should want to have a car and own their own place. Trying to hop on busses or hail cabs is what men do who don't have their sh1t together. Only low quality slobs wait for men who ride on the bus to get to their destination.
 

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No my theory is not wrong. Every man should want to have a car and own their own place. Trying to hop on busses or hail cabs is what men do who don't have their sh1t together. Only low quality slobs wait for men who ride on the bus to get to their destination.
its different from country to country mate. if its easy in the US to find a great job without many effort and get a car and a house, here in Portugal unemployment is at its max. you see many guys in their 30's living with their parents, many people who complete university and cant find a job, it's sad but its true.so i can't call others slobs because i dont know what their social status is or if they can afford a home or a car.
 

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You don't need a car to get girls, having one is a plus and convenience but make her ass meet you halfway so at least they invest some effort into the dating rather than you pick her up feed her ass she gives the tired to Fck excuse and you drop her home. Most Chinese women are gold diggers looking for bmws, I wouldn't take them seriously, the overrated piece of ass and fronting you will have to put up with from these type of women ain't worth the insurance money car payments gas and time wasted looking for parking.
 

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ImprovingJuan said:
its different from country to country mate. if its easy in the US to find a great job without many effort and get a car and a house, here in Portugal unemployment is at its max. you see many guys in their 30's living with their parents, many people who complete university and cant find a job, it's sad but its true.so i can't call others slobs because i dont know what their social status is or if they can afford a home or a car.
Any guy with status has his own car and place. That is what he should be aiming for. Not only that it's an inconvenience trying to get transportation on date if you go back to her place or want to go to a different venue.
 

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Any guy with status has his own car and place. That is what he should be aiming for. Not only that it's an inconvenience trying to get transportation on date if you go back to her place or want to go to a different venue.
Ya that'll do it
 

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in every city execpt NYC a car is kinda a basic level requirement.

there are songs about this ****. TLC won a grammy for the song "srubs" and this was back in the early 90's lol.

i don't want no scrubs. a scrub is a man that can't get no love from me. hanging out the passenger side of his best friends ride.. trying to holler at me
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you my friend, are a scrub. in the eyes of a woman. and you can call a womans hallow, you an call a woman whatever, but the fact is, they have the ***** and you want it. these are things that women use as weeding out men that arne't worth their time.

in NYC you can get away with it. anywhere else, you can't. unless you are dating some seriously skanky women.


don't be a scrub brah. you *****ing about shallow women on sosuave isn't going to magically make women look at you differently becuase you don't have a car.

if you want to be able to bang women on a constant basis, you have to pass the most basic of tests. having a car and a job are 2 pretty ****ing basic tests. that's like spelling your name right on the ACT.,
 

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backbreaker said:
in every city execpt NYC a car is kinda a basic level requirement.

there are songs about this ****. TLC won a grammy for the song "srubs" and this was back in the early 90's lol.

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you my friend, are a scrub. in the eyes of a woman. and you can call a womans hallow, you an call a woman whatever, but the fact is, they have the ***** and you want it. these are things that women use as weeding out men that arne't worth their time.

in NYC you can get away with it. anywhere else, you can't. unless you are dating some seriously skanky women.


don't be a scrub brah. you *****ing about shallow women on sosuave isn't going to magically make women look at you differently becuase you don't have a car.

if you want to be able to bang women on a constant basis, you have to pass the most basic of tests. having a car and a job are 2 pretty ****ing basic tests. that's like spelling your name right on the ACT.,
Well that makes me feel better, although I still live at home, I do have a job, am employed and have a car at least
 

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