Girl asked me out on Tinder

KrisD

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Hey ghys, long story short...

I am Bulgarian who works and studies in the UK.
I matched on Tinder with a girl, British girl.
I messaged her first with simply "Boo" and she responded relatively fast.

Anyway we started chatting, not all the time, maybe 5 texts a day, not more since I am extremely busy and she works full time.
She asked for my phone number so we can move on WhatsApp. After a couple of texts she said she wants to hear my accent. I said ok and we spoke on the phone for hour and a half!

After that phonecall she asked me out, but thats not the problem.
She wants to hear me very often and I can't speak with her all the time because I have university and job going at the same time... And we have a date in 2 days. I feel I won't have much to say to her in person if we speak that often so I reject her and find a reasonable excuse not to call her.

She doesn't spam me, but she has way too much interest in me and she haven't even met me!

I have been in a situation like this before where the girl shows great interest in me and when we meet, well, totally different person. I am starting to think the problem is in me... And I want to avoid experience like that.

My question is what my behaviour should be?

She is about 7/10 on the pics.
Thank you.
 

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I'm pretty sure she wants your d.ick in and around her mouth.
 

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Hey ghys, long story short...

I am Bulgarian who works and studies in the UK.
I matched on Tinder with a girl, British girl.
I messaged her first with simply "Boo" and she responded relatively fast.

Anyway we started chatting, not all the time, maybe 5 texts a day, not more since I am extremely busy and she works full time.
She asked for my phone number so we can move on WhatsApp. After a couple of texts she said she wants to hear my accent. I said ok and we spoke on the phone for hour and a half!

After that phonecall she asked me out, but thats not the problem.
She wants to hear me very often and I can't speak with her all the time because I have university and job going at the same time... And we have a date in 2 days. I feel I won't have much to say to her in person if we speak that often so I reject her and find a reasonable excuse not to call her.

She doesn't spam me, but she has way too much interest in me and she haven't even met me!

I have been in a situation like this before where the girl shows great interest in me and when we meet, well, totally different person. I am starting to think the problem is in me... And I want to avoid experience like that.

My question is what my behaviour should be?

She is about 7/10 on the pics.
Thank you.
Your behavior in person should be the same as your bahavior on the phone. Otherwise, no wonder why these chicks are walking away from you.
 
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Hey ghys, long story short...

I am Bulgarian who works and studies in the UK.
I matched on Tinder with a girl, British girl.
I messaged her first with simply "Boo" and she responded relatively fast.

Anyway we started chatting, not all the time, maybe 5 texts a day, not more since I am extremely busy and she works full time.
She asked for my phone number so we can move on WhatsApp. After a couple of texts she said she wants to hear my accent. I said ok and we spoke on the phone for hour and a half!

After that phonecall she asked me out, but thats not the problem.
She wants to hear me very often and I can't speak with her all the time because I have university and job going at the same time... And we have a date in 2 days. I feel I won't have much to say to her in person if we speak that often so I reject her and find a reasonable excuse not to call her.

She doesn't spam me, but she has way too much interest in me and she haven't even met me!

I have been in a situation like this before where the girl shows great interest in me and when we meet, well, totally different person. I am starting to think the problem is in me... And I want to avoid experience like that.

My question is what my behaviour should be?

She is about 7/10 on the pics.
Thank you.
Do you properly groom before dates? Shower etc? No bad smell? Breath? Just a theory.
 

KrisD

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Just a quick update.

I was fatfished, what was suposted to be on the pictures came 80lbs more and alot taller than the info I was given...
To all the guys out there, don't make the same mistake as I did. Ask for recent pictures.
I am not going to go in details but it was my worst date ever...
I haven't even told my friends, they will give me so much ****...
Anyway thanks for the tips guys, take care.
 

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Lol. He said "fatfished".
 
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