“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Girl asked me out on Tinder

KrisD

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Hey ghys, long story short...

I am Bulgarian who works and studies in the UK.
I matched on Tinder with a girl, British girl.
I messaged her first with simply "Boo" and she responded relatively fast.

Anyway we started chatting, not all the time, maybe 5 texts a day, not more since I am extremely busy and she works full time.
She asked for my phone number so we can move on WhatsApp. After a couple of texts she said she wants to hear my accent. I said ok and we spoke on the phone for hour and a half!

After that phonecall she asked me out, but thats not the problem.
She wants to hear me very often and I can't speak with her all the time because I have university and job going at the same time... And we have a date in 2 days. I feel I won't have much to say to her in person if we speak that often so I reject her and find a reasonable excuse not to call her.

She doesn't spam me, but she has way too much interest in me and she haven't even met me!

I have been in a situation like this before where the girl shows great interest in me and when we meet, well, totally different person. I am starting to think the problem is in me... And I want to avoid experience like that.

My question is what my behaviour should be?

She is about 7/10 on the pics.
Thank you.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

old_skoolr

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I'm pretty sure she wants your d.ick in and around her mouth.
 

Masculinity

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Hey ghys, long story short...

I am Bulgarian who works and studies in the UK.
I matched on Tinder with a girl, British girl.
I messaged her first with simply "Boo" and she responded relatively fast.

Anyway we started chatting, not all the time, maybe 5 texts a day, not more since I am extremely busy and she works full time.
She asked for my phone number so we can move on WhatsApp. After a couple of texts she said she wants to hear my accent. I said ok and we spoke on the phone for hour and a half!

After that phonecall she asked me out, but thats not the problem.
She wants to hear me very often and I can't speak with her all the time because I have university and job going at the same time... And we have a date in 2 days. I feel I won't have much to say to her in person if we speak that often so I reject her and find a reasonable excuse not to call her.

She doesn't spam me, but she has way too much interest in me and she haven't even met me!

I have been in a situation like this before where the girl shows great interest in me and when we meet, well, totally different person. I am starting to think the problem is in me... And I want to avoid experience like that.

My question is what my behaviour should be?

She is about 7/10 on the pics.
Thank you.
Your behavior in person should be the same as your bahavior on the phone. Otherwise, no wonder why these chicks are walking away from you.
 
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Hey ghys, long story short...

I am Bulgarian who works and studies in the UK.
I matched on Tinder with a girl, British girl.
I messaged her first with simply "Boo" and she responded relatively fast.

Anyway we started chatting, not all the time, maybe 5 texts a day, not more since I am extremely busy and she works full time.
She asked for my phone number so we can move on WhatsApp. After a couple of texts she said she wants to hear my accent. I said ok and we spoke on the phone for hour and a half!

After that phonecall she asked me out, but thats not the problem.
She wants to hear me very often and I can't speak with her all the time because I have university and job going at the same time... And we have a date in 2 days. I feel I won't have much to say to her in person if we speak that often so I reject her and find a reasonable excuse not to call her.

She doesn't spam me, but she has way too much interest in me and she haven't even met me!

I have been in a situation like this before where the girl shows great interest in me and when we meet, well, totally different person. I am starting to think the problem is in me... And I want to avoid experience like that.

My question is what my behaviour should be?

She is about 7/10 on the pics.
Thank you.
Do you properly groom before dates? Shower etc? No bad smell? Breath? Just a theory.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Just a quick update.

I was fatfished, what was suposted to be on the pictures came 80lbs more and alot taller than the info I was given...
To all the guys out there, don't make the same mistake as I did. Ask for recent pictures.
I am not going to go in details but it was my worst date ever...
I haven't even told my friends, they will give me so much ****...
Anyway thanks for the tips guys, take care.
 

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Lol. He said "fatfished".
 
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