"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl asked me out on Tinder

KrisD

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Hey ghys, long story short...

I am Bulgarian who works and studies in the UK.
I matched on Tinder with a girl, British girl.
I messaged her first with simply "Boo" and she responded relatively fast.

Anyway we started chatting, not all the time, maybe 5 texts a day, not more since I am extremely busy and she works full time.
She asked for my phone number so we can move on WhatsApp. After a couple of texts she said she wants to hear my accent. I said ok and we spoke on the phone for hour and a half!

After that phonecall she asked me out, but thats not the problem.
She wants to hear me very often and I can't speak with her all the time because I have university and job going at the same time... And we have a date in 2 days. I feel I won't have much to say to her in person if we speak that often so I reject her and find a reasonable excuse not to call her.

She doesn't spam me, but she has way too much interest in me and she haven't even met me!

I have been in a situation like this before where the girl shows great interest in me and when we meet, well, totally different person. I am starting to think the problem is in me... And I want to avoid experience like that.

My question is what my behaviour should be?

She is about 7/10 on the pics.
Thank you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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old_skoolr

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I'm pretty sure she wants your d.ick in and around her mouth.
 

Masculinity

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Hey ghys, long story short...

I am Bulgarian who works and studies in the UK.
I matched on Tinder with a girl, British girl.
I messaged her first with simply "Boo" and she responded relatively fast.

Anyway we started chatting, not all the time, maybe 5 texts a day, not more since I am extremely busy and she works full time.
She asked for my phone number so we can move on WhatsApp. After a couple of texts she said she wants to hear my accent. I said ok and we spoke on the phone for hour and a half!

After that phonecall she asked me out, but thats not the problem.
She wants to hear me very often and I can't speak with her all the time because I have university and job going at the same time... And we have a date in 2 days. I feel I won't have much to say to her in person if we speak that often so I reject her and find a reasonable excuse not to call her.

She doesn't spam me, but she has way too much interest in me and she haven't even met me!

I have been in a situation like this before where the girl shows great interest in me and when we meet, well, totally different person. I am starting to think the problem is in me... And I want to avoid experience like that.

My question is what my behaviour should be?

She is about 7/10 on the pics.
Thank you.
Your behavior in person should be the same as your bahavior on the phone. Otherwise, no wonder why these chicks are walking away from you.
 
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Hey ghys, long story short...

I am Bulgarian who works and studies in the UK.
I matched on Tinder with a girl, British girl.
I messaged her first with simply "Boo" and she responded relatively fast.

Anyway we started chatting, not all the time, maybe 5 texts a day, not more since I am extremely busy and she works full time.
She asked for my phone number so we can move on WhatsApp. After a couple of texts she said she wants to hear my accent. I said ok and we spoke on the phone for hour and a half!

After that phonecall she asked me out, but thats not the problem.
She wants to hear me very often and I can't speak with her all the time because I have university and job going at the same time... And we have a date in 2 days. I feel I won't have much to say to her in person if we speak that often so I reject her and find a reasonable excuse not to call her.

She doesn't spam me, but she has way too much interest in me and she haven't even met me!

I have been in a situation like this before where the girl shows great interest in me and when we meet, well, totally different person. I am starting to think the problem is in me... And I want to avoid experience like that.

My question is what my behaviour should be?

She is about 7/10 on the pics.
Thank you.
Do you properly groom before dates? Shower etc? No bad smell? Breath? Just a theory.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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KrisD

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Just a quick update.

I was fatfished, what was suposted to be on the pictures came 80lbs more and alot taller than the info I was given...
To all the guys out there, don't make the same mistake as I did. Ask for recent pictures.
I am not going to go in details but it was my worst date ever...
I haven't even told my friends, they will give me so much ****...
Anyway thanks for the tips guys, take care.
 

El Payaso

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Lol. He said "fatfished".
 
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