Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girl asked for space so I'm blocking her what will happen

johnnyappleseed2

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I don't blame her for asking for space we got into a bad bad argument for days. to the point where we both hurt each other. she was crying i was sad etc after what transpired.

when she asked for space I said fine here take your space have a good day and left it at that. don't know what will happen next but i decided to block here on everything. my phone will allow me to see blocked messages and phone calls if i decided too look...anyways, what will happen if she's blocked and tries to contact me like if she knows she's blocked. will this inflame the situation? I care about her but for my own sanity I would rather not know if she's trying to contact me or not for a while...i told myself I wanna block her for 30 days then look.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Chev.Chelios

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In other words she's saying..

"Dude, your becoming such a chump your draining my emotions, I might come back when you get back on your chit"

Meanwhile she's out suckin off the real studs that don't give af about her.

Steps..


1. Let her go
2. Understand the situation and get better, not bitter..
3. Tell her your sorry for becoming a chump, I'll work on myself and get back to center
4.Go OUT a hundred times and get your chit back on track
5. Do not, in any way.. do things out of reaction to her.(this is a big one)
If you're really messed up no contact does help, but all that's doing is reinforcing your upset over her.
6. Except that you fell into chodism, realize it. Be cool with it, don't be mad at her, rather encourage her to move up with better people while you learn how to be cool again.

7. You might see her out one night, when you do just smile and say hey! Along wit a hug.
(I used to flip my exs off when I saw them and it makes things so much worse, just saying hahah)
 
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