So yea that's the story. This is what she texted me "I'm sorry, I haven't been a great person towards you lately. it's just that you sometimes say and do things that piss me off. But that doesn't give me the right to talk to however I feel like." this text surprised me, it was like out the blue. I didn't even know she did anything wrong, yes she has been kinda cold and a ***** lately but I didn't think she'd ever apologize for it. We usually text each day but the last time we texted was thursday afternoon and nothing till she just apologized. What do I do? Should I text her back and if I do WTF do I say? how long before I text back?
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Girl apologizes through text
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Who is she? A girlfriend?
That was a ridicilous text. She's acting like she's your owner and your her puppy but she has been neglecting taking you on walks lately. I'd be annoyed. If a girl got 'pissed off' at me for something i did, id be temped to straight punch her right in the kidney. She's allowed to be annoyed and angry, i encourage this, but acting like she's the boss and punishing me by talking down to me, she's asking for a slap. Id prefer her to cry it out and whine quietly.
Say something to knock her off her comfort spot, stop being her puppy girlfriend. Dont take her seriously, dont let her win.
'Hey i lost all my phone contacts, who's this?'
or
'Yes, you've been very bad recently. Come over to mine and strip at once so that i can teach you not to do that again'
That was a ridicilous text. She's acting like she's your owner and your her puppy but she has been neglecting taking you on walks lately. I'd be annoyed. If a girl got 'pissed off' at me for something i did, id be temped to straight punch her right in the kidney. She's allowed to be annoyed and angry, i encourage this, but acting like she's the boss and punishing me by talking down to me, she's asking for a slap. Id prefer her to cry it out and whine quietly.
Say something to knock her off her comfort spot, stop being her puppy girlfriend. Dont take her seriously, dont let her win.
'Hey i lost all my phone contacts, who's this?'
or
'Yes, you've been very bad recently. Come over to mine and strip at once so that i can teach you not to do that again'
i agree with Ease, what she said was incredibly disrespectful. I really like the "I lost all my contacts option" go for it. Whatever you do though, DO NOT respond in kind to her message, explaining your or her actions. She wants you to do this. This type of text is nothing new, it has been done many times before and is just another frame grab. Yes, this girl is being manipulative. Trust me. I've had a text almost the same done to me (Except the girl was a lot more dramatic and weepy in saying she was sorry).
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Haha great success.
The text was just to unsettle her. Carry on as normal now, act like nothing happened. If she brings up the apology or weird behaviour then play it cool and brush it off. She wants you to give her a reaction, as captain said she's being manipulative.
Hold your frame strong always, you dont have to reply if you dont want to. Completely change subject or say 'wat are you talking about?' if you need. If she ever calls you out on ignoring or not replying you can just throw it at her, 'do i need to reply to every text?'
'Oh ok, sup?'
The text was just to unsettle her. Carry on as normal now, act like nothing happened. If she brings up the apology or weird behaviour then play it cool and brush it off. She wants you to give her a reaction, as captain said she's being manipulative.
Hold your frame strong always, you dont have to reply if you dont want to. Completely change subject or say 'wat are you talking about?' if you need. If she ever calls you out on ignoring or not replying you can just throw it at her, 'do i need to reply to every text?'
'Oh ok, sup?'