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girl apologizes for being drunk last night.. accept?

tony-montana

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so i'm down with my friend on the weekend and stay there the night.this girl that i know who i talk to often is a head case. first off, she txt me about 3pm saying how she misses me... then i decide to call her soon after, she doesn't answer and she says: "Im in a rush im getting ready and am late! what do you want :p"

so i just reply: "wanted to say hi, don't worry about it then."

1 am, im ready for bed... she starts calling me, well actually her guy friend does (about 20 or more times the whole morning. and just being silly .. can hear her laughing and giggling in the background. i asked the guy to put her on and he wouldn't... and i dont think she wanted to talk anyway. so i just kept hanging up and stopped answering eventually. she also knew i was seeing a girl that night and the girl i was with picked up my phone and i quickly hung up but the other girl heard it and she msg back sayin "who the **** was that chick?"

i turned my phone off. turned it back on in the morning and got a "go **** yourself" txt from her. another later on in the afternoon saying "****ing idiot"

a text message again, later on.. about 7pm "Hey sorry about last night, i turn into a horror when i drink.... i think i may have pissed you off?"

cause i ain't been replying at all. this was very immature of her what she did but is being drunk an excuse or should i stop talking to her?
 
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okay she just text me again cause i blocked her on msn and facebook.. she said "ahh you blocked me on everything. can you please unblock and talk to me for a sec please?"

this girl has dissapointed me more than once too. but she keeps wheeling me back in somehow :/

another one: "Talk to me for a bit then block me and i'll delete your number.. why take things so seriously.."
 

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what am i meant to do she keeps messaging my phone and begging me to talk to her.. i dunno if i should or not.. grr
 

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I don't get the impression this girl means anything to you, so what does it matter?

Personally, I wouldn't have gotten so dramatic with the blocking of the facebook and all. I would have just withdrawn interest, not given her the "silent treatment". Since the goal is apparently just to get her to stop bugging you, and not stir her up. Now if your goal IS to stir her up, that's different.
 

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too late. i unblocked her and i told her what i felt about it.. i don't like how she's hangin out with drunk guys pranking my phone all night .. dont like the idea of her out n about on sat night .. shes too young at heart for me.. immature. i dont really get along with ppl who party up on weekends getting drunk. its so not me... i just told her we're too different and to leave me alone and have a good life. dont have time for bullsh!t. theres much more mature girls out there.

she keeps wheelin me back in to play her stupid games. i ask to catch up with her more, she makes up crap, when i stop giving her attention she starts harrassing me or if she finds out im with other girls. if she wanted to really get to know me more and start something she would of met up with me more often.
 

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"So i called you a few times and was being silly whats the big ****ing deal. Yeah it was a bit stupid of me i admit. And i dont bother you, your the one whos made contact with me after we hadn't spoken for a while. You dont know me so don't ****ing act like you do. Say your piece and just go, good on ya. Your a sleaze anyhows. Deleted."

txt from her just then, heh.
 

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Sounds like you're better off.
 

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Omgwtfbbq. Wow, what a psycho. I agree that your better off, though I doubt this is the end of it, she'll be back in a few days.
 

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tony-montana said:
a text message again, later on.. about 7pm "Hey sorry about last night, i turn into a horror when i drink.... i think i may have pissed you off?"
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i used to have a girl call me up and randomly have a go at me when drunk...kinda amusing
 

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tony-montana said:
"So i called you a few times and was being silly whats the big ****ing deal. Yeah it was a bit stupid of me i admit. And i dont bother you, your the one whos made contact with me after we hadn't spoken for a while. You dont know me so don't ****ing act like you do. Say your piece and just go, good on ya. Your a sleaze anyhows. Deleted."

txt from her just then, heh.
Text her back and say 'suck a ****ing whale **** you fat *****'.
 

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give her a "haha have a nice day" and continue about your merry way

shes a little girl sh*t testing you bro, all she wants is a rise out of you, gotten these very same texts before and if you take this crap they will continue to have fun walking all over you.

after that last text saying shes deleting you, just say "thanks, goodbye", she will text you again eventually, just ignore it.
 

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Text her back and say 'suck a ****ing whale **** you fat *****'.
Just don't send anything... You got rid of her the easy way and you don't have to feel guilty about it, nor do you have to act like the afc and get the last word like some people seem to be suggesting.

You got rid of a looney the easy way :up:
 
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