"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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We go out.

We fvck.

At 3 am, her phone is non stop going off from texts from the ex-boyfriend. She replies to one of them and then "goes to the bathroom." I get dressed, she tells me to stay, offers sex, I fvcking walk out the door.

Next.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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she might have gone to the bathroom to ring him and tell him to **** off?
 
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By walking out, you only showed how insecure you really are. You just got done with sex and you don't think she was satisfied off of you? She had to go and sweet talk her ex boyfriend into more sex even though she offered you more sex just to stay?? What the hell?

You just got the sex. What are you worried about? She wanted you, but your ego got the best of you. If you can't handle her trying to ditch her ex for you, maybe you shouldnt be with her. Find some other tail and stop complaining.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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And people wonder why the outside world thinks this community is full of weirdos
 
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LOL Don't listen to the AFC advice. You did the right thing. It's best to avoid girls such as that.
 
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He doesn't have to marry her. Treat a slut like a slut and get your nut when you want it.

Guys gotta learn how to string girls along man, you get no extra points for morals or passive-aggressiveness
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The OP is still a little boy that needs to grow up.

1. She isnt your gorlfriend so you shouldnt care who else she talks/sees/fvcks.

2. After you **** you get dressed and go home you dont stay over to cuddle/spoon/sleep with a h0e you just fvcking.

3. Maybe if you had other h0es spinning this incident wouldnt had bruised your ego to begin with.
 
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Shot, Tiguere and Diaforetikos, got it right. If you aren't getting married to this girl or even dating her then who gives a ****?
 
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SharinganUser said:
Shot, Tiguere and Diaforetikos, got it right. If you aren't getting married to this girl or even dating her then who gives a ****?
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I totally agree.

Not only is this girl happy to have sweaty hot sex with you, she also puts herself in a position where she can't nag you for a relationship. Unless you have some deep feelings for this girl, I see no reason to get hissy about it.

Okay, so she's not relationship material. Doesn't mean you can't enjoy some great sex along the way. Loosen up, man.
 
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you guys are such a bunch of Keyboard jocky AFC d!cks. He can do whatever he fvcking wants. His post was not asking for your stupid worthless advice, but you fvcks are so inclined to give it. and from your replies, it also shows just how high up on a pedistal you have a piece of pvssy.
who cares if he's not getting married or dating her, does that mean he has to put up with something he doesn't want to? He can do whatever the hell he wants for whatever reason he wants.

now that i got that off my chest... have a nice day.
 
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you guys are such a bunch of Keyboard jocky AFC d!cks. He can do whatever he fvcking wants. His post was not asking for your stupid worthless advice, but you fvcks are so inclined to give it. and from your replies, it also shows just how high up on a pedistal you have a piece of pvssy.
who cares if he's not getting married or dating her, does that mean he has to put up with something he doesn't want to? He can do whatever the hell he wants for whatever reason he wants.
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Why put a message on a discussion board if not with the intent to discuss it? If he just wanted to write something and have no one agree/disagree, he could have typed it up and taped it to his refrigerator.

I give you the same advice I gave him: Loosen up, man.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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maybe so. just getting tired of seeing guys on here putting pvssy over their own self respect.
oh well, most of you guys are lost causes anyway, at least some will break their stupid habits.
 
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It's obvious that he didn't approve of the girl talking to her ex. Regardless if she is his GF or not. Regardless if if his intentions was to marry the girl. He doesn't approve... So he doesn't have to put up with it. Some guys are different. Some guys don't want to feel "disrespected" by having the girl talking to another guy while around them. It's not that big of a deal to be honest. He didn't want to put up with it so he didn't.
 
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Pierce said:
It's obvious that he didn't approve of the girl talking to her ex. Regardless if she is his GF or not. Regardless if if his intentions was to marry the girl. He doesn't approve... So he doesn't have to put up with it. Some guys are different. Some guys don't want to feel "disrespected" by having the girl talking to another guy while around them. It's not that big of a deal to be honest. He didn't want to put up with it so he didn't.
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The point is that he let a woman affect his frame of mind. As Diaforetikos said, shows a lot of insecurity. He didn't have to put up with it, but he also didn't have to walk out on the girl.

A similar thing happened to me last year. I was in bed with a chick I picked up at the bar, and we'd just finished fvcking. She turns on her phone and starts reading these txts from some guy from her city. Did I get upset and walk out or kick her out? No.

What I did was read the texts with her, we had laugh at how much of a pathetic afc loser this guy was(he asked her what she wanted from the "relationship" even though they weren't really in one), I called him a pansy, then we started fvcking again. Best 5 night stand ever.
 
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The way I see it, the point of the advice given here is that his disappointment comes from a losing state of mind, a need to be controlling. Nobody's saying he's wrong for feeling the emotions he's feeling, just trying to help the OP see it from a different point of view based on our experiences, and last time I checked that's the point of this forum.
 
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His intentions was to not have a fvck buddy but try to see what more he could get. This is obvious if he got mad at that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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