Long story short. I've known this girl from church for a week now. Managed to get her number then set up a night out with her friends and my friends last Friday at some club. While we were there, i tried all the time to dance with her and also kept telling her that I have high interest in her.Her response was medium IL ( iguess). Later on my friends told me that i should've taken things easier , that i came onto her too strong and that might scare her off.So i just said, BS , she already know how i feel when i first called her, there's nothing to hide between me and her now.
Anyway, i called her again on Sat and we went out again ( this time just the 2 of us). After the dinner, we did some serious make out in my car. Now comes the sad part. On the way home, she said that she already had a boyfriend that she met online 3 months ago and they never met in real life , and that he doenst even live in the US ( where we both live), and that she plan to stay faithfull with him. To me it just sounds so bullsh*t, .But the way she kept repeating it just made me hard to not believe.
Now my question is i like this girl a lot and wanna go further with her. Usually i would back out if the girl already has a boyfriend. But come on man, this time , it's an online never met boyfriend. so what you guys think ? is she just playing me or what? My mind says get rid of her but my heart says the opposite. And i personally dont wanna give up her at all.
Anyway, i called her again on Sat and we went out again ( this time just the 2 of us). After the dinner, we did some serious make out in my car. Now comes the sad part. On the way home, she said that she already had a boyfriend that she met online 3 months ago and they never met in real life , and that he doenst even live in the US ( where we both live), and that she plan to stay faithfull with him. To me it just sounds so bullsh*t, .But the way she kept repeating it just made me hard to not believe.
Now my question is i like this girl a lot and wanna go further with her. Usually i would back out if the girl already has a boyfriend. But come on man, this time , it's an online never met boyfriend. so what you guys think ? is she just playing me or what? My mind says get rid of her but my heart says the opposite. And i personally dont wanna give up her at all.