Girl agrees to date, but...

[WhitePimp]

A girl I'm talking to agreed to go out on Sunday but said "I might have plans so text me on Saturday to remind me, since I always forget lol"

Now I hate flaky BS and I'm not fvcking reminding a chick about a date, so I just said "Shiit you must be popular. We'll do it another day"

She then replied "like?" and I just said "whenever, maybe next week"

Anything I could've done better? I left a few other miniscule things out and paraphrased but this was the gist. This girl is 25 btw

I'm going to leave it to her to reschedule. These chicks are getting ridiculous with this flaking. I'm almost positive this chick isn't doing sh!t on Sunday but is just trying to appear cool.

 

[InnerHappiness]

I might have gone with- Sunday 3PM, Starbucks Downtown.

That's it, just do what you normally do and if at ~3 she doesn't text OMW or here, then it's time to move on.

 

[Greasy Pig]

It's a frame grab.
You've played it well by calling her on her BS.
If you really want her, schedule one date ONCE, no confirmation. If she flakes, at least you can definitely next her confident she wasn't right for you.

 

[Trump]

A girl I'm talking to agreed to go out on Sunday but said "I might have plans so text me on Saturday to remind me, since I always forget lol"

Now I hate flaky BS and I'm not fvcking reminding a chick about a date, so I just said "Shiit you must be popular. We'll do it another day"

She then replied "like?" and I just said "whenever, maybe next week"

Anything I could've done better?

Bro you are gettting way too emotional, she has got you in knots and hasnt even touched you.

Instead of "whatever, we will do it another day" I would have replied "Can you write it down now so you dont forget?".

Put it back on her and take the pressure off yourself. Close the deal!

 

[Le killeur]

You should drop this sack of sh1t bro. I hate when girls do that, you should of ignored the confirmation text and unless she texted you on saturday you should of considered the date null and gone no contact.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Translation: "I'll go out with you if I end up not having anything better to do."

LAME LAME LAME response on her part. IL is likely low.

Go no contact.

Edit: I think the best way to have handled this situation is like someone else said, go along with it and set a time/place. But definitely DO NOT message her like the little puppy dog that she's trying to get you to be. If she ends up calling you, tell her that "you're with someone" and you figured she wasn't going to come out anyway. If she tries to get it out of you, say you're with a girl you met a while back. Doesn't matter if you have to lie. That should put her in her place.

 

[betheman]

"I might have plans so text me on Saturday to remind me, since I always forget lol"

I wouldnt have even replied to that

 

[badboyjmm]

I hate when girls do that, you should of ignored the confirmation text and unless she texted you on saturday you should of considered the date null and gone no contact.

Quoted for truth !

If she was really interested, she wouldn't need a reminder that she will be going on a date. No contact and chase other girls

 

[JohnChops]

"I might have plans so text me on Saturday to remind me, since I always forget lol"

I wouldnt have even replied to that

Yeah fvck this hoeeeee

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

said "I might have plans so text me on Saturday to remind me, since I always forget lol"

Low IL.
You are not a priority to her. You're on the backburner and she will only go out with you if her other options blow out.

 

[WhitePimp]

I'm not too worried about it. I got something else going on today instead. I work with her, so tomorrow at my job should be pretty amusing.

And these chicks wonder why they're alone and scouring POF in their 30's? :crackup:

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

Is she on POF? I wouldn't knowingly date any woman that had a profile on that site. Every woman on that site is either fooked in the head or has more baggage than a jumbo jet.

 

[Jair213]

Is she on POF? I wouldn't knowingly date any woman that had a profile on that site. Every woman on that site is either fooked in the head or has more baggage than a jumbo jet.

:crackup:

 

[WhitePimp]

Is she on POF? I wouldn't knowingly date any woman that had a profile on that site. Every woman on that site is either fooked in the head or has more baggage than a jumbo jet.

I have no idea. She might be. I met her at work. But a 25 year old who acts like a teenage girl must have some issues.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Listen dude, Don't be second fiddle to no one!!!

You should have told her straight up that your not a backup plan. Your not something to do when your friends are doing something else. You should be the main plan. Straight up.

Not a second plan, not a third plan, but first!!

 

[WhitePimp]

Listen dude, Don't be second fiddle to no one!!!

You should have told her straight up that your not a backup plan. Your not something to do when your friends are doing something else. You should be the main plan. Straight up.

Not a second plan, not a third plan, but first!!

Yeah, but I'm not going to act like I'm her boyfriend when I'm not her boyfriend. There's no reason to be pissed at her or even angry, a girl being a flaky idiot is like a child crying...it's just what they do and to get pissed or angry is not going to change things. The best I can do is just find a chick who won't flake and treat this one like the child she is.

It's just sad that girls can't make a simple plan and keep it, and then they complain about being alone on facebook.