"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girl admits she's high maintenance

DJinTraining06

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My gf's best friend turned down this guy recently (who is a close friend) and claimed that "he wouldnt even know wat to do with me, i'm too high maintenance for him"

What the hell does that mean? That comment just made me sick. She's admitting she's a high maintenance b*tch? i think wat annoyed be about it is that my gf told me this story as if she agreed with her.

Women have become monsters. I dont know why that bothered me so much.
I just laughed when my gf said that and pretended it was funny. I then proceeded to ask my gf if she considered herself high maintenance or not. And she says "ummmm i dunnooooo, maybe middle of the road"

I dont know wat that even means. Does it mean they need alot of material things? Or do u just have to be their slave or soemthing? I mean im sure they r half jokin when they say this stuff but its still annoying to listen too.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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vorbis

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High maintenance would be
  • Throwing fits over small things
  • being over emotional
  • wanting you to frequently go shopping with her :nono:
  • wanting you to wine and dine her

Maintenance is essesntially anything thats going to piss you off !
 

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Own her - LORD over her

DJinTraining06 said:
My gf's best friend turned down this guy recently (who is a close friend) and claimed that "he wouldnt even know wat to do with me, i'm too high maintenance for him"

she EFA'd him

What the hell does that mean? That comment just made me sick. She's admitting she's a high maintenance b*tch? i think wat annoyed be about it is that my gf told me this story as if she agreed with her.

So what, your GF is not to back her friend's play - DUDE...females have MAD solidarity unless their own PERSONAL INTEREST is at stake - then they fight like starving tigers; guys are idiots and will usually break solidarity for sex - balless bastards, I'd like to smoke each one of you punks execution-style that have done that shiaht

Women have become monsters. I dont know why that bothered me so much.
I just laughed when my gf said that and pretended it was funny. I then proceeded to ask my gf if she considered herself high maintenance or not. And she says "ummmm i dunnooooo, maybe middle of the road"

You need a reality check...you're in pahussy-trance friend...you're GF will never say ANYTHING that will lower her chances of extracting resources from you - women are KING VULTURES; good thing you played it off...but my suscpicion is that she *senses* a weakness - BE CAREFUL

I dont know wat that even means. Does it mean they need alot of material things?

I'm gonna pimp-slap your punk-ahss - if you knew your GF would shell out material goods if you withdrew sex and affection - would you do it? HAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHA

Or do u just have to be their slave or soemthing? I mean im sure they r half jokin when they say this stuff but its still annoying to listen too.

Well if you've ever been a slave you know the answer to that...oh wait, you said you think they're half joking - you're PHAQUED...HAHAHAHAHAAHA
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Veritas Lux Mea
 

DJinTraining06

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You need a reality check...you're in pahussy-trance friend...you're GF will never say ANYTHING that will lower her chances of extracting resources from you - women are KING VULTURES; good thing you played it off...but my suscpicion is that she *senses* a weakness - BE CAREFUL

What kind of weakness? Are sayin that she might have told me that story about her friend cuz she feels i am lacking ina certain area? Like say buying her things, or acting a certain way? I havent bought her anything yet, not even flowers. Just dinner and movie tickets, and sometimes we go dutch.
 

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Relax man...its no biggie - you're not dead - YET! This is simple stuff...

Whenever she say XYZ **** about anyone else (any when I say anything = use good sense) - this means anyone who is not YOU - you laugh at it, especially if it refers to girls doing <x> because of <y> or that her friend <a> is too <b> for <c>...you just laugh at her...

The weakness I was talking about is YOUR INSECURITY - you see you what girls try to do is test you by telling stories; you can do the same if you want...e.g.

WC: yeah this "friend" of mine WC, well he likes to tell his GF he's at work when he's actually calling her from my place - he's such a player...

See-I'm-Sayin?

Anyhow the whole deal is to frame them in contrast to their friends like, "Look IM not like THAT," for the purpose of (a) keeping you stressed, and (b) creating a paradigm where behavior that is LESS than that is acceptable - setting the bar...so-to-speak...

Now, do they do this on purpose - we could never say when they're "just" talking or "active" in manipulation b/c we're not them...so just to be safe - assume its the latter until its shown to be the former...its easier that way and then you'll never be blind-sided....

As far as the buying things...you're good for now - don't sweat it...this little stuff is cool IF YOU WANT TO - when it crosses over into I FEEL I SHOULD, or worse, I HAVE TO - then OMG - YOURE DEAD.

Point is this - how she treats you...that matters; I'd say when she tells you this BS either laugh, tell her a "WC" story or ignore - getting agitated sucks you into her world and trust me friend - you don't want to be there...

Good Luck!

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Veritas Lux Mea
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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