Girl acting strange since breaking things off

[RoscoeClash]

Was seeing this girl, nothing serious, just casual for a couple months. Well, she broke things off, became less responsive and more distant, stopped replying to my texts, etc.

So I thought whatever and didn't try to get back with her. Well, it's been three months or so and whenever I see her around work (I never see her on a day to day business as we work in different areas of the building...I've seen her around at work maybe three-four times total in those three months), she acts awkward around me.

Like, won't look at me, even when we're walking by each other. And yesterday, it was the longest we had been in the same room since, and she never looked in my direction. And weirdly, I was talking to one of the other coworkers and the coworker mentioned that the HB knew something about the topic we were talking about and called over to her and she just kind of looked at us and said "what's up" and then looked away and didn't come over.

I mean, I was doing okay. I know I shouldn't care. But that interaction yesterday bothered me. I mean, what the hell, it's not like I've creeped on her or anything. The first time she stopped replying to me, I stopped texting her. She's the one saying no to me, so why is she acting like I'm the one who did her wrong?

 

[Casillas]

Like the phrase: "If she blocks you, you win". Its obviously that she is acting childish, because she still care about you, otherwise she will act indifferently, she is giving a lot of importance in a relationship that is over. My advice is to get over it, you need to move on, you don't need this kind of people in your life.

 

[dustmuffin]

Don't worry about it. Be civil when you see her and move along.

 

[RoscoeClash]

Like the phrase: "If she blocks you, you win". Its obviously that she is acting childish, because she still care about you, otherwise she will act indifferently, she is giving a lot of importance in a relationship that is over. My advice is to get over it, you need to move on, you don't need this kind of people in your life.

I appreciate the advice, but this is what I don't get. She's the one who broke it off......so why is she acting childish? I don't get it, wouldn't she just not care?

 

[Casillas]

I appreciate the advice, but this is what I don't get. She's the one who broke it off......so why is she acting childish? I don't get it, wouldn't she just not care?

You have just said that, she is the one who end the relationship, and she cant understand that you continue with your life, is she is mature enough to broke it off she need to assume the consequences, instead of that she is acting weird... in my point of view that an childish attitude.

 

[Julian]

Why dont you double ignore her. who cares about these interactions. she dumped u because she didnt want anything to do with u and she is imposing that same method of thinking and feeling to you in all ways. whats there to question?

 

[RoscoeClash]

Why dont you double ignore her. who cares about these interactions. she dumped u because she didnt want anything to do with u and she is imposing that same method of thinking and feeling to you in all ways. whats there to question?

Because she's acting as though I've "wronged" her somehow. I would get that if I was the one who broke things off, but she was the one who broke them off, so I don't know why she's acting as if I've wronged her.

I'm just trying to think this through. It surprisingly unsettled me yesterday.

 

[dude99]

Was seeing this girl, nothing serious, just casual for a couple months. Well, she broke things off, became less responsive and more distant, stopped replying to my texts, etc.

So I thought whatever and didn't try to get back with her. Well, it's been three months or so and whenever I see her around work (I never see her on a day to day business as we work in different areas of the building...I've seen her around at work maybe three-four times total in those three months), she acts awkward around me.

Like, won't look at me, even when we're walking by each other. And yesterday, it was the longest we had been in the same room since, and she never looked in my direction. And weirdly, I was talking to one of the other coworkers and the coworker mentioned that the HB knew something about the topic we were talking about and called over to her and she just kind of looked at us and said "what's up" and then looked away and didn't come over.

I mean, I was doing okay. I know I shouldn't care. But that interaction yesterday bothered me. I mean, what the hell, it's not like I've creeped on her or anything. The first time she stopped replying to me, I stopped texting her. She's the one saying no to me, so why is she acting like I'm the one who did her wrong?

Because she feels in her arrogance she is above you snd she knows you like her so she feels she can treat you how she wants. Go 100 % ignore on her and dont give her a second thought

 

[Julian]

whats there to think about dude? like seriously, get your head out of the sand. focus on things that actually MATTER. She DOES NOT matter. What she thinks of you or how she is acting is typical female behavior..who gives a fuk why. its based off her emotions and emotions cant be reasoned with logic so stop wasting your time playboy

 

[oOh Nasty]

What she thinks of you is none of your business from this point on. You sound like a woman bringing up all of this unnecessary drama when it's over already. Why is it bothering you? Could it be, you still got that one-itis for this chick?

Forget about it bruh. Whether she ignores you or stares at you or tries to play push-pull or threatens to kill herself over you, who the f*ck cares. Your ties with her have been severed. From this point on, all of her actions should be irrelevant. She is irrelevant. Why are you trying to make logical sense of her actions?

FORGET ABOUT IT.

 

[Sho-No-Luv]

Wow! The answer is in the question... Think about it.

Btw, do realize that the reason she dumped you is exactly because of how you're acting right now?

I never validate these slores. Make her hamster spin.

Her: Roscoe, I've been thinking things aren't working out for us and well.. I want to break up.

Roscoe: Breakup? Hmm, I didn't know we were together. But yea sure thing Princess.
You leave and walk out.

Her: (in her hamster head) Wtf! He might be a man after all... what have I done? Oh so my p!ssy's not made of gold then? Was he playing me all this time? Is there someone else.

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I remember the first time I actually tried this on a female that was in the process of dumping me. It made her hamster mind spin like a lottery wheel. Coulda swore I was at the casino. I ignored the sh!t out of her too. She begged ne to come back, but I was done. And you need to be done too...March on soldier!

 

[dustmuffin]

Wow! The answer is in the question... Think about it.

Btw, do realize that the reason she dumped you is exactly because of how you're acting right now?

I never validate these slores. Make her hamster spin.

Her: Roscoe, I've been thinking things aren't working out for us and well.. I want to break up.

Roscoe: Breakup? Hmm, I didn't know we were together. But yea sure thing Princess.
You leave and walk out.

Her: (in her hamster head) Wtf! He might be a man after all... what have I done? Oh so my p!ssy's not made of gold then? Was he playing me all this time? Is there someone else.

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I remember the first time I actually tried this on a female that was in the process of dumping me. It made her hamster mind spin like a lottery wheel. Coulda swore I was at the casino. I ignored the sh!t out of her too. She begged ne to come back, but I was done. And you need to be done too...March on soldier!

Perfect way to act when you are dumped. You dgaf.....