This girl I've been dating for 6 months (we're exclusive) gets a message from an ex, it is only until I really pressure her she confesses and shows me the message (he was asking if she was busy). I said I wasn't going to stand for that sh!t and that she should put a stop to that.
She says he knows we're together and tells me I can check her phone anytime I want and thinks its best to ignore him, but says that she will do what I tell her to do and is even willing to call him to make clear to him we are together.
A week goes by and I can't shut up about this ex texting and using it against her, she has been acting hot 'n cold. She starts arguing with me that I don't trust her and that I should let go of the ex texting her.
I told her I that if she was going back on her word of willing to do anything to stop her ex from contacting her, I would not be with her and hung up.
A couple hours passed by and she called me crying saying that I would be sorry if I let her go and that she is very hurt that I'm willing to walk away so easily. She said she isn't doing anything bad and I'm being unfair (I never broke up with her, but she understood that). We saw each other later and she acted hurt but was very affectionate.
She's been showing less affection today because she's still hurt, but says she really wants this to work.
Would you keep on going as if nothing happened or start acting distant?
She says he knows we're together and tells me I can check her phone anytime I want and thinks its best to ignore him, but says that she will do what I tell her to do and is even willing to call him to make clear to him we are together.
A week goes by and I can't shut up about this ex texting and using it against her, she has been acting hot 'n cold. She starts arguing with me that I don't trust her and that I should let go of the ex texting her.
I told her I that if she was going back on her word of willing to do anything to stop her ex from contacting her, I would not be with her and hung up.
A couple hours passed by and she called me crying saying that I would be sorry if I let her go and that she is very hurt that I'm willing to walk away so easily. She said she isn't doing anything bad and I'm being unfair (I never broke up with her, but she understood that). We saw each other later and she acted hurt but was very affectionate.
She's been showing less affection today because she's still hurt, but says she really wants this to work.
Would you keep on going as if nothing happened or start acting distant?
