"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Girl acting crazy

Raikojo17

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my friend ( and by friend i mean friend, not me) wants to date this girl he's been hanging out with for awhile, but she is hesitant to start a relationship with him. she says her old bf was a let down and she's hesitant to start another one. he really wants to date her and he's a bit of AFC. and evertime he asks she acts all weird and doesnt give him straight answer, or blows him off with "lol". she has even said he's too nice. wat should he do. move on? or persist?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Othello said:
TBH mate, i don't think the girl is interested in you, and as you say you're an AFC I would say this is the main reason.

Move along because if she was interested she wouldn't act like this. Sorry mate.
lol, dudes, i said it really aint me i'm talkin about here. it reall y is a friend who needs help. he told me all about the things they did when they hung out, and from wat i hear she has shown some interest( making out with him, letting him touch her, laying with him, taking about sex with him, etc). but after all that she says she wants to keep him as a friend instead of ruining their relationship with making him her bf and then breaking up. could it be she's just a big flirt? thanx for the advice tho, ill break it to him.
 
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