"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girl acting crazy

Raikojo17

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my friend ( and by friend i mean friend, not me) wants to date this girl he's been hanging out with for awhile, but she is hesitant to start a relationship with him. she says her old bf was a let down and she's hesitant to start another one. he really wants to date her and he's a bit of AFC. and evertime he asks she acts all weird and doesnt give him straight answer, or blows him off with "lol". she has even said he's too nice. wat should he do. move on? or persist?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Othello said:
TBH mate, i don't think the girl is interested in you, and as you say you're an AFC I would say this is the main reason.

Move along because if she was interested she wouldn't act like this. Sorry mate.
lol, dudes, i said it really aint me i'm talkin about here. it reall y is a friend who needs help. he told me all about the things they did when they hung out, and from wat i hear she has shown some interest( making out with him, letting him touch her, laying with him, taking about sex with him, etc). but after all that she says she wants to keep him as a friend instead of ruining their relationship with making him her bf and then breaking up. could it be she's just a big flirt? thanx for the advice tho, ill break it to him.
 
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