"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She's been after me for months but I'm newly married, so haven't been gaming her back

She does exactly the same things as before, crosses my path, puts herself in my orbit etc

But her whole demeanour has changed, playing it cool, referring to me by surname and sometimes giving "evil faces"

It's either some kind of test or a different method to win me over, and it's kinda working

How do I react?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think shes trying a different method. How do you react depends on what you want with her. An affair? Don´t let her get under your skin bro. I would fail to aknowledge her new method.
 
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Medina said:
She's been after me for months but I'm newly married, so haven't been gaming her back

She does exactly the same things as before, crosses my path, puts herself in my orbit etc

But her whole demeanour has changed, playing it cool, referring to me by surname and sometimes giving "evil faces"

It's either some kind of test or a different method to win me over, and it's kinda working

How do I react?
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If you are married, you leave it alone. You don't fvck with other ladies if you are married.
 
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If you are married, you leave it alone. You don't fvck with other ladies if you are married.
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I'm a weird guy. It's not cheating. I don't want sex. I just want their heart and their soul.

It's probably vanity. But it never ends well
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Medina said:
I'm a weird guy. It's not cheating. I don't want sex. I just want their heart and their soul.

It's probably vanity. But it never ends well
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yeah ego is something you should kep in control, what yous hold do? nothing, ignroe her really, she want you to note her, being nice didn't work now she will try to give teh cold shoulder, the strange is she will orbit you for it, laught it off and ignore that is what I would do
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Medina said:
She's been after me for months but I'm newly married, so haven't been gaming her back
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It's just for her self validation. It's one thing to have single men chasing her, and absolutely another thing on higher level to be chased and desired by a married man. If you were single, she wouldn't notice you. Her first displaying choosing signals, and then going colder is nothing but to manipulate your ass into giving her some attention. If you do pursue her, chances are you won't even get into her panties.




You must have a fat single friend, or a looser friend with glasses. You should talk to him about introducing him to a hot woman, and then go ahead and introduce him to her, out of the blue, and leave the fck them both there to their own devices.
 
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