"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girl accept date but had to counter offer twice!

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I've been reading Anti-dump's machine on weeding out the uninterested chick, the first part he mentioned if the girl don't like your date ideas it's a RED FLAG!

Interestingly I asked out this girl, she accepted the date but I wouldn't tell her where we were going(annoyed her in a good way that I wouldn't tell). Was going to take her Rockclimbing so I had to call and confirm before booking, anyways this girl didn't want to do rock climb because it's too physical. I followed Anti-dump's machine and gave a counter offer, she didn't like it also.

After 2 date ideas turned down I said I had to go and was gonna leave it at that. For some reason I followed my instinct and text her later with a third idea, which she seemed to like. She didn't agree with the location I suggested for the date and she suggested another location. We agreed on it!

Anti-dump's machine would say this girl's IL is not that high because she doesn't seem to follow my lead and should be filtered, what do you guys think?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I would agree. Although rock climbing is a bit of an extreme first date idea. That's something you can do after you've already built some rapport with a girl.

First dates, in my opinion, should be something where you can have a conversation. Bar. Relaxed music show. A walk through the city. An afternoon of rock climbing pretty much guarantees that there will be no first date sex, since she'll be all sweaty and exhausted. Not that I'm saying you should base your dates around sex (you should).....but you'd at least like to have the option.

But yeah, I wouldn't trust a girl who made me suggest 3 different dates. I guess you'll find out though.
 
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The date came and go lastnight, went alright but she was so uptight about everything as expected! Well, next!
 
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Listen to the red flags.. there are a lot of scumbag b1tches with nothing better to do than waste a players time then go home and fvck themselves with a frozen hot dog.. in other words they are pathetic.
 
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