"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This female texts me every day...and we talk. But every time I try to set up something she has a excuse. Seems theyre valid...but at times not. Its the times when theyre not valid that matter though, right?

Anyway, she tries to set up stuff like...getting together to help me pick out a bedroom set. But seems shes never really serious about it. My last text to her was...saying well lets go look at some furniture tomorrow. and dont 'maybe' me. i want you to come w/me. she replied w/ok.

But of course you know females like to come up w/excuses at the last minute.

I believe she knows the next time I see her Im going to make a move...and I dont know if shes ready. Could it be that? Or something else? She just got out of a relationship about a month ago.

I'm looking for help on how to get her to come around. If I see her tomorrow, I'm definitely going to touch her...and make it clear to her where I stand. We have only spent like 3 times together. The last time I was the most touchy w/her, and thats probably when I should have made the move to kiss her, but I was taking things slow. But see, you can't take **** slow w/females these days. YOU JUST cANT!

Help. & thx in advance.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Man,it seem like this question pops up ALL THE TIME.

I'll just give you a link to the last time I answered it.

Just like I said to the other guy,this can work,however,you'll need to be strong to do it.

Here,take a look at this. It's from about a week ago.

It should help you out.
 
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