"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This female texts me every day...and we talk. But every time I try to set up something she has a excuse. Seems theyre valid...but at times not. Its the times when theyre not valid that matter though, right?

Anyway, she tries to set up stuff like...getting together to help me pick out a bedroom set. But seems shes never really serious about it. My last text to her was...saying well lets go look at some furniture tomorrow. and dont 'maybe' me. i want you to come w/me. she replied w/ok.

But of course you know females like to come up w/excuses at the last minute.

I believe she knows the next time I see her Im going to make a move...and I dont know if shes ready. Could it be that? Or something else? She just got out of a relationship about a month ago.

I'm looking for help on how to get her to come around. If I see her tomorrow, I'm definitely going to touch her...and make it clear to her where I stand. We have only spent like 3 times together. The last time I was the most touchy w/her, and thats probably when I should have made the move to kiss her, but I was taking things slow. But see, you can't take **** slow w/females these days. YOU JUST cANT!

Help. & thx in advance.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Igetit!

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Man,it seem like this question pops up ALL THE TIME.

I'll just give you a link to the last time I answered it.

Just like I said to the other guy,this can work,however,you'll need to be strong to do it.

Here,take a look at this. It's from about a week ago.

It should help you out.
 
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