"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girfriends Cousin!!!!

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Ok so here is the situation my daughters mother has a cousin and she looks good anyway im over the cousin house yesterday and we all chilling me and my daughters mother and her cousin and her man. So she is tryin to play with my daughter and Im sittin next to her so she leans over me to play with her but her breasts are now on my hand. Now Im thinkin this just incidental contact but this like the 2nd time she has brushed my hand with her boobs while "acting" like she playin with my daughter. Her and her man deep in love too so I dont think she tryin get at me Im confused what yall think? Im reading to much into it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yes......but try slapping her in the face with your penis and see by her reaction if she likes you.....
 

MarkHammond

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yes what? its an accidental brush? she didnt realize she was leaning over me and her breasts were on me?
 

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at the end you said am i reading to much into this and i answerd yes to that
 

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could it be that she was just playing with the child and it just happened, she is comforatable arournd you isn't she?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yea she is thats why i thought it was nothin because it happened before but i think she just dont realize what she doin
 

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Oh yes, she realizes what she's doing. Are you gonna tell me women can pick up all kinds of subtle things from guys yet they're not gonna notice themselves brushin' their boobs against a guy.

A lot of times women will do this kind of stuff to see if they still have sex appeal in the eyes of other men. They all need to feel like they could still get a man's attention. It is a basic need they have, specially when they are married or are in a LTR. Don't make anything of it.
 

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damn but i wanna make sumthin of it. the dude she with is a real afc. She has him on a string and a relationship like that the chick always lookin foir some side ****
 
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