You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
"Free market"? What planet are you from? Not a single country in 2021 has anything even remotely resembling a free market economy.Well, it's a free market and the world doesn't owe this woman shyt.
As for Melania, who cares. She married a politician. The only people responsible for her hurt feelings are her and her husband. Fair game and she will continue to have millions of white knights to support her.
+1.If you want to make money off of stupid people, you have to cater to stupid people. She obviously decided she wasn't going to do that anymore.
She doesn't understand (or maybe she does, and just doesn't care) that you have to make your money first, THEN you start spitting out your beliefs, then no one can really cancel you, because you really don't care. Like Trump, they tried cancelling him and he would just say, "yeah I did it" and kept on trucking.
You have freed yourself from what? Objective reality? You cannot be a free man and live in the modern society. And whatever little freedom you have will soon be nothing.I'm not talking about any country. I freed myself from that kind of mindset a long time ago.
Perhaps this woman is more sovereign than her triggered fans realize. I haven't heard her complain about losing her job. She actually sounds happy not to be working for Disney and to have a new opportunity. Why would she fight to work for a company so capricious and restrictive when she can move on and be free? I'm thinking maybe SHE gets it, at least.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.