"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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gift ideas for female freind i want more

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met this girl from the net-went out twice -one for coffee and the other dinner-i paid, also ,met up with her freinds but very briefly,i know her now for approx 1 month we also chat on the phone. she more like a friend -that is what she says we are ,but i want more.

her birthday comin up and i want to buy her a gift-something cheap since i'm unemployed and also broke. any suggestions for a gift approx 10 bucks or even less-soemthing nice ,but good for a female friend . ideas.....etc
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You've been here since Feb 2005 and you don't know the answer to all this?

she more like a friend -that is what she says we are ,but i want more.
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You're hopelessly in the friend zone. Get over her and move on.

her birthday comin up and i want to buy her a gift-something cheap since i'm unemployed and also broke.
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You're unemployed, and you have no money. You should be more concerned with how you're going to pay bills (if you're on your own) and how you're going to overcome your unemployment instead of buying a female friend a birthday present. If she's really your friend, she'll understand if you get her NOTHING.

Go read the DJ bible and get a clue.
 
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