Ghosts from the past

[CMNILS87]

Hung out with a chick early January, did a couple dates and I disappeared. I had a gut feeling she was **** testing me literally about everything. The worst **** test that I flipped on her was this one conversation.

At a bar hanging. She pulls a ninja, hey my friend is comin to say hi. An hour later...

Her: not gonna lie, I invited her out to see if you flirted with her more than me. Usually if they do, I get rid of them
Me: this whiskey is really tasty, huh???
Her: my friends really hot, you think she's hotter? cause you're kinda cold towards me right now.
Me: "it's really loud in here". Anyways, how bout this. Let's us 3 go on a date next time and I'll let you two fight over me for my affection?

Her eyes exploded and her jaw dropped open. I was expecting a chuckle from her and I got the reverse. like I was suppose to supplicate her and roll over.

Few more dates after that and I disappeared. Other women and long work hours. She texted me now...3 months later asking how I was doing and that she was thinking about me when she was at the bar last Friday night. I asked her to hang after 3 texts. No reply. What's with the ive been thinkin about you text? Testing for orbiters?

 

[Tamura]

Orbit.

How soon was your reaction time?

 

[CMNILS87]

3 hours. My texting is erratic. If I feel like replying I will or I just delete it. Happened 2 weeks ago with another ghost from a few months ago. I didn't reply to that one.

 

[Floydispink01]

You stole a part of her ego when you disappeared.....intentionally or not on your part.

She reached out to get it back.

 

[CMNILS87]

Yea, ego trip to feel valuable. She pinged me. Never should have replied, she didn't reply back to my date after 2 days.

 

[GeniuzKhrist]

Early January-To now, and you have not ****ed her, real important lesson here, but I'm sure you'll make another thread asking for advice

 

[CMNILS87]

Early January-To now, and you have not ****ed her, real important lesson here, but I'm sure you'll make another thread asking for advice

Nah

 

[GeniuzKhrist]

Okay, then I'll answer you now. Who gives a ****, keep ****ing about with past women and that'll get you no where.

 

[Glumix]

Ahah, that was just another **** test. You failed it. She's rejected you by not answering. She just wanted to test your interest.

If she's fvcked up why do you ask her out?

 

[CMNILS87]

Cause I'm dumb

 

[Dealler]

I don´t think you fvcked up. She reached out to you, you took opportunity to ask her out, she did not reply so you know she was just checking her orbit. Who cares if you failed some s*** test from a chick you don´t care about. Next time you´ll just ignore her.