Ghosting is Immature and Childish

[Zimbabwe]

Women and simps would often say "You don't owe anyone an explanation for why you don't want to date them. No one is entitled to your time or a friendship/relationship", but let's be honest, they've come up with this narrative because being honest with people makes them uncomfortable and they'd rather make up an excuse than face the fact that they are toxic.

You also don't "have to" wash your hands every time you use the bathroom or change your underwear everyday. Just because you don't have a gun pointed at your head doesn't mean you're morally absolved from being a ****ty person.

Women love making excuses as to why they don't extend the common courtesy that basically everyone in the past has done. My favorite is when they make it a safety issue, like they thought they would die if they turned the person down with words rather than just severing all contact (hint: the person who will kill or hurt you for turning them down will probably be determined enough to stalk you if you ghost them).

 

[Plinco]

I would say that ghosting is unprofessional. Unfortunately the standards aren't there anymore

 

[SargeMaximus]

Aspire to be a man with options who doesn’t care if a silly girl ghosts him.

On the flip side: ghosting a woman who is misbehaving is a good tactic. Women crave attention like crack

 

[Plinco]

On the flip side: ghosting a woman who is misbehaving is a good tactic. Women crave attention like crack

Yes this too. Since people are less civilized ghosting is appropriate this way

 

[Dash Riprock]

Women HATE confrontation. It's easier to just go silent in this day and age as most people meet on apps and OLD and you'll never see them again. Plus, some (most) guys can't handle rejection and get really p*issy.

The BIG problem I have is ghosting in business. It's gotten really bad.

We'll get an inquiry, have a 30 minute video or phone consultation, assemble a detailed and customized proposal, and often hear nothing despite our follow up efforts. It's just really unprofessional that people cannot provide you the simple professional courtesy of a one sentence reply. Seems to be equally men and women displaying this behavior.

 

[EyeBRollin]

I fully advocate ghosting. You don’t owe the broad anything. You actually come off as too self-important by doing that. If she didn’t at minimum give you some pvssy you two never had anything. No need for a formal break up.

 

[bat soup]

Women and simps would often say "You don't owe anyone an explanation for why you don't want to date them. No one is entitled to your time or a friendship/relationship", but let's be honest, they've come up with this narrative because being honest with people makes them uncomfortable and they'd rather make up an excuse than face the fact that they are toxic.

You also don't "have to" wash your hands every time you use the bathroom or change your underwear everyday. Just because you don't have a gun pointed at your head doesn't mean you're morally absolved from being a ****ty person.

Women love making excuses as to why they don't extend the common courtesy that basically everyone in the past has done. My favorite is when they make it a safety issue, like they thought they would die if they turned the person down with words rather than just severing all contact (hint: the person who will kill or hurt you for turning them down will probably be determined enough to stalk you if you ghost them).

Women are cowards. A woman can't "be a man" because she's not. If you hear excuses or silence, don't beleive her or wonder if she got hit by a bus - that's just a woman's cowardly way of saying she's not interested.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Personally I don't mind getting ghosted, I much prefer that over hearing some boilerplate, insincere BS that they say to avoid hurting your feelings. A few select women have told me what I did wrong and I was extremely grateful, but I don't think most guys actually want to here that.

Women have told me that most men get butthurt, desperate, and clingy after getting rejected. So, I can kind of understand why women would ghost - in these soyboys minds, outright rejection could be interpreted as "leading them on" or "there's still a chance".

As much as we like to criticize women, at the end of the day I'd say weak, faggy simps are the real cause of these societal-level issues we have in the dating world.

 

[rjc149]

Women ghost in order to avoid confrontation, because 30,000 years of human biological evolution hasn't been undone in the past 20 years.

Confronting and angering a male who is larger, stronger, heavier, and more aggressive than she is can be a fatal mistake. Just because it can now be done over the phone doesn't change the underlying motivation to avoid a confrontation with someone who is physically capable of killing them.

And as stated above, many men cannot handle rejection properly. I've seen text exchanges women have shown me after politely declining another date with some dude. "Yeah well I wasn't feeling you that much anyway, you think you're hot but you were 20 lbs heavier than your pic and your makeup looked like sh!t, I feel bad for the chump who ends up with you" etc. Women naturally prefer to avoid that.

 

[Juanto]

No need for a formal break up

exactly, break up of what precisely?

 

[Barrister]

Women and simps would often say "You don't owe anyone an explanation for why you don't want to date them. No one is entitled to your time or a friendship/relationship", but let's be honest, they've come up with this narrative because being honest with people makes them uncomfortable and they'd rather make up an excuse than face the fact that they are toxic.

You also don't "have to" wash your hands every time you use the bathroom or change your underwear everyday. Just because you don't have a gun pointed at your head doesn't mean you're morally absolved from being a ****ty person.

Women love making excuses as to why they don't extend the common courtesy that basically everyone in the past has done. My favorite is when they make it a safety issue, like they thought they would die if they turned the person down with words rather than just severing all contact (hint: the person who will kill or hurt you for turning them down will probably be determined enough to stalk you if you ghost them).

It is - but it is how women are wired. They don't want conflict and actually look at it as a nicer way of handling a parting than a direct discussion where they tell you why they don't find you desirable.

But is true that unless you are in a committed LTR they don't owe you anything. The bigger simp move is getting butt-hurt over it. You should have so many options that you immediately move on to the next if you get ghosted.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

Women and simps would often say "You don't owe anyone an explanation for why you don't want to date them. No one is entitled to your time or a friendship/relationship", but let's be honest, they've come up with this narrative because being honest with people makes them uncomfortable and they'd rather make up an excuse than face the fact that they are toxic.

You also don't "have to" wash your hands every time you use the bathroom or change your underwear everyday. Just because you don't have a gun pointed at your head doesn't mean you're morally absolved from being a ****ty person.

Women love making excuses as to why they don't extend the common courtesy that basically everyone in the past has done. My favorite is when they make it a safety issue, like they thought they would die if they turned the person down with words rather than just severing all contact (hint: the person who will kill or hurt you for turning them down will probably be determined enough to stalk you if you ghost them).

Agreed. People hardly commit to anything in life and are trustworthy anymore. Asking a sign of respect towards a stranger is beyond imaginable and tangible for some.

Modern Man Advice

 

[Roober]

Ghosting by women is byproduct of desperate men

Ghosting by men is a byproduct of poorly behaved women