"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ghosting is Bull****

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synergy1 said:
Thanks! that is what I go for. If one doesn't take responsibility, what good can come from ones mistakes? Sure its been a while, but I know the streak will end eventually. I like to take stock where I am, understand the challenges ahead and go forward. If this means swinging down , than it might be a good idea while in normal circumstances it might not be.

"women can sense a desperate, needy man and that is not directly related to how much sex you have."

Not directly, no. But indirectly, your body language, manner of speaking will telagraph these things for you. I know this because I have been in a totally reversed situation from where I am now, and had zero trouble during those times. People's overall attention to you is a confluence of things, most of which are derived from confidence in some way. You see this in sports, the work place..everywhere.
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Clever man.

Ur "mojo" is missing and that's not a problem to get back.

It's actually really easy to gain back. All you hv to do is put urself into a positive position - that means enlarging ur sphere of influence.

One idea is to join a nature/travel club that goes out camping or long drives. Facebook has lots of groups. Plenty of girls are looking to hitch a ride...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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bigdave17 said:
that's a bunch of bull****


women can sense a desperate, needy man and that is not directly related to how much sex you have. I talked to this chick from my high school yesterday at my gym, guess what? she was all over me instantly and I haven't been laid in about 1.5 years. She was not nearly attractive enough to be dating material but she was all over me regardless
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@Amante Silvestre has already given you the keys to open up a whole new world for you in another thread.

Have you not considered his words?

Amongst all those posters who contributed, he was the only one who got it right with ur problem.

Use his advice wisely Dave and rise up to the challenge lest you risk being relegated as being irrelevant.

We r all counting on you 2 bring SS to greater heights.

Do not disappoint us.
 
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