Ghosting and blocking a girl i have been seeing for 2 months

[metalwater]

not the one for you. but she is amazing, and probably awesome sex.

it's not going to work out for you with her. as per you, she is dominant in the relationship. you see her as above you and are lucky to have such a good-looking hb9. it is already set, from this point, you would have to fight VERY hard to reverse it. since no legal and no kids it's just not worth it unless you think she is the ONLY one for you. you can not manage your environment if she is in it, she will not let you...

she looks that good AND still is available for a reason, your telling the reasons. Lots of guys have been through her already rejected or crushed.

very high estrogen makes a woman very sexy and attractive to us, even makes them an hb9+. the same causes very high emotional flow and emotional decisions in the extreme. if you are not the strongest man you know, get out now.

 

[Georgepithyou]

she looks that good AND still is available for a reason, your telling the reasons. Lots of guys have been through her already rejected or crushed.

very high estrogen makes a woman very sexy and attractive to us, even makes them an hb9+. the same causes very high emotional flow and emotional decisions in the extreme. if you are not the strongest man you know, get out now

Attractive and mentally stable women exist, they are married/in a relationship 99% the time. If an attractive woman is single she always tends to be crazy.

At first you wonder how can such a good looking girl still be single, you start dating her and everything seems great. Until she becomes an energy vampire and you go through a rollercoaster of emotions.

These women will also leave you the second they find a shiny new toy to play with.

 

[zinc4]

not the one for you. but she is amazing, and probably awesome sex.

it's not going to work out for you with her. as per you, she is dominant in the relationship. you see her as above you and are lucky to have such a good-looking hb9. it is already set, from this point, you would have to fight VERY hard to reverse it. since no legal and no kids it's just not worth it unless you think she is the ONLY one for you. you can not manage your environment if she is in it, she will not let you...

she looks that good AND still is available for a reason, your telling the reasons. Lots of guys have been through her already rejected or crushed.

very high estrogen makes a woman very sexy and attractive to us, even makes them an hb9+. the same causes very high emotional flow and emotional decisions in the extreme. if you are not the strongest man you know, get out now.

I see her as way below me actually in many ways. I just have a weakness towards a certain type looks wise.

 

[Imarriedawinner71]

OP if you had to block her and post on SS about it you are the one who is suffering emotionally.Do not spin plates.Look for a woman to actually commit yourself to marry,then you won’t be treated badly.Quality women want a lifelong commitment not to be referred to as a “plate” the problem is you.

 

[zinc4]

OP if you had to block her and post on SS about it you are the one who is suffering emotionally.Do not spin plates.Look for a woman to actually commit yourself to marry,then you won’t be treated badly.Quality women want a lifelong commitment not to be referred to as a “plate” the problem is you.

I never considered her as a plate. Ironically you are wrong and that mindset was the problem to begin with.

 

[Focal core]

Sounds a legit nutter

 

[zinc4]

Sounds a legit nutter

I was out last night drinking and she texted me from a new number blaming me for stuff and upset. I was pretty drunk at the time so lost my composure completely and ripped into her. Some mean nasty insults that just spilled out of me. She then sends a long message this morning saying she loves me but is scared of me being with me because those texts were exactly like something like her abusive exes would do and is too scared to try things back with me and those angry text messages brought back painful memories.

So i said i already assumed this was over and gave up but thanks for going out of your way to reach me from a new number just to start more drama. If you keep poking a dog expect to get bitten. Good luck.

So she basically texted me from a new number to tell me she loves me but is finished. Oh well, i guess she helped her ego out that way. Lol Women. Would have straight ignored the new number message but was drunk and was tired of taking her bs insults in stride.

This woman has caused me an incredible amount of drama since i met her. It feels like a 3 year relationship condensed down into 1.5 months. Obviously i got wayyyyyy too emotionally invested here. Would be lying if i said otherwise. And still haven't quite gotten over this.

But that is what happens when you let your frame slip due to fear of losing one based on pure physical attraction. I also saw all the red flags in the very beginning but still went with it....just because she is my type perfectly looks wise. I cant even get hard ons with most women now. In fact, i was convinced i was suffering from ED before i met this one.

Women who many men find very attractive do absolutely nothing for me physically anymore. Im just extremely picky looks wise now. So i only have myself to blame for it. Placing looks and sex over common sense. I feel like every time i slip up like this though my inner game becomes a lot stronger right after. Another reminder of just how key it is to always keep your own frame intact and never supplicate....ever. Haven't been as physically attracted to a woman who i dated like this in over 5 years.

I feel bad because another girl i was seeing actually seems very nice and i rejected her for this recent toxic one. She wants to come over tomorrow though. She is more like the HB6.5 or 7 girl next door type.

 

[Focal core]

She then sends a long message this morning saying she loves me but is scared of me being with me because those texts were exactly like something like her abusive exes would do and is too scared to try things back with me and those angry text messages brought back painful memories.

Crazies tend to be more alluring than hot, value wise shes a 1. They tend to do come here go away stuff.. These are absolutely huge red flags.. Ive said countless time on Ss healthy women doesnt talk very early on about their ex in front of you.

If you continue with her youre the next abusive partner to tell to her new relplacement. Its very important that you eject.

With crazies its not a about frame, its no one can made it into the journey with her..

Get a hotter emotionaly healthy girl that met your criteria.. Most importantly dont do girl who monkey branched.. They tend to be nuts.

The 6~7 next door girl.. Back off if you need sometime to heal.. Even more drop her if u dont feel her. She doesnt deserve to be treated less.

Take a good time to heal.

 

[dude99]

I was out last night drinking and she texted me from a new number blaming me for stuff and upset. I was pretty drunk at the time so lost my composure completely and ripped into her. Some mean nasty insults that just spilled out of me. She then sends a long message this morning saying she loves me but is scared of me being with me because those texts were exactly like something like her abusive exes would do and is too scared to try things back with me and those angry text messages brought back painful memories.

So i said i already assumed this was over and gave up but thanks for going out of your way to reach me from a new number just to start more drama. If you keep poking a dog expect to get bitten. Good luck.

So she basically texted me from a new number to tell me she loves me but is finished. Oh well, i guess she helped her ego out that way. Lol Women. Would have straight ignored the new number message but was drunk and was tired of taking her bs insults in stride.

This woman has caused me an incredible amount of drama since i met her. It feels like a 3 year relationship condensed down into 1.5 months. Obviously i got wayyyyyy too emotionally invested here. Would be lying if i said otherwise. And still haven't quite gotten over this.

But that is what happens when you let your frame slip due to fear of losing one based on pure physical attraction. I also saw all the red flags in the very beginning but still went with it....just because she is my type perfectly looks wise. I cant even get hard ons with most women now. In fact, i was convinced i was suffering from ED before i met this one.

Women who many men find very attractive do absolutely nothing for me physically anymore. Im just extremely picky looks wise now. So i only have myself to blame for it. Placing looks and sex over common sense. I feel like every time i slip up like this though my inner game becomes a lot stronger right after. Another reminder of just how key it is to always keep your own frame intact and never supplicate....ever. Haven't been as physically attracted to a woman who i dated like this in over 5 years.

I feel bad because another girl i was seeing actually seems very nice and i rejected her for this recent toxic one. She wants to come over tomorrow though. She is more like the HB6.5 or 7 girl next door type.

Texting you from a new number is proof she wants nothing but drama. She knew you blocked her original one that is the only reason she texted from a brand new number. She lost. Her ego couldn't handle it.

When she texted blaming everything on you from the new number you should have just said "who this?" then blocked the number before she answered.

I say that jokingly. She deserved no reply at all. This is why we say delete and block. No contact. No contact.