Called a girl I've been seeing (4 months). She was out of town with her family all weekend so I hadn't seen her. I asked if she wanted to hang out tomorrow, she said she wasn't sure, we chatted a bit etc. etc.
Ten minutes after I said goodbye she called back, and said something to the effect of 'I won't hang out with you tomorrow, because I tried to hang out with you all last week and you didn't want to' (garbage because I was with her for almost three straight days last week - an awfully long time for me. I like my privacy). She also accused me of becoming 'too comfortable' with her.
I didn't capitulate (fall to my knees and swear my love) but I didn't completely call her on her BS because I wasn't in the mood for a long confrontation. In the end I smoothed things over.
I wouldn't be too upset if I lost this girl; I don't see much long-term potential in her. What confounds me is the desire of women to cause havoc and drama in their own lives. the more girls I meet the more I find myself really belieiving in the whole 'emotionally fragile' thing.
Ten minutes after I said goodbye she called back, and said something to the effect of 'I won't hang out with you tomorrow, because I tried to hang out with you all last week and you didn't want to' (garbage because I was with her for almost three straight days last week - an awfully long time for me. I like my privacy). She also accused me of becoming 'too comfortable' with her.
I didn't capitulate (fall to my knees and swear my love) but I didn't completely call her on her BS because I wasn't in the mood for a long confrontation. In the end I smoothed things over.
I wouldn't be too upset if I lost this girl; I don't see much long-term potential in her. What confounds me is the desire of women to cause havoc and drama in their own lives. the more girls I meet the more I find myself really belieiving in the whole 'emotionally fragile' thing.