"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
GFs who can't stop seeking male attention
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
DEEZEDBRAH
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Son, your seconds away from getting cucked. Step your game up!
In before, that baby is yours lulz
I dunno, man. I've met some pretty incredible people. This thread was the best.
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And you are? If you're going to take a jab at me then at least provide your input.
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She's just not big on the holiday to my knowledge.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
youve got 7 pages of input , how much more input do you need
you are pedastalling a woman, its quite clear you idolize her even though if you think high up you dont...sub conciously you do
a bit like if sofia vergara asked you to meet her at the end of the street you would start to get a little flustered anxious due to her beauty
however if a mediocre woman asked you to meet her at the end of the street you wouldnt give a flying ****
only when you can be in the not give a **** mode 24/7 will women worship you and not do what your monkey branchers doing
even if you split up the relationship its all part of her plan
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Oh I'm sure...
Didn't you say she was drooling all over the player she dated right before she met you? Posting about him on social media like a teenage girl? But she can't make a simple Valentine's day Facebook post about you when 99% of other young women in relationships do the same? Let alone do anything special on the day? Really looks like you're Mr Beta Provider... you do know that with a child on the way, you'll still have to give this woman child support payments until the kid is 18? Oh yeah, you already have a child from another relationship so you would know. And she CERTAINLY knows how this works...
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My name is Mr. Johnson, thank you very much. She didn' make a sweet post about me, no. But she didn't last Valentine's day either, and we're still together. You're right about her being very seduced by the last guy she was with, which I admit, she's not nearly as sexually triggered with me. Don't get me wrong, we have sex. But I think she "toned it down" sexually so to speak, in our relationship. She doesnt compliment me physically the ways she did the last guy. Busts my balls about my looks from time to time (as I've previously established.)
My input is I feel sorry for you. You're in a tough situation with no easy solutions. I wish you the best and stay strong. I don't think you need advice about women as much as you need some life advice. Get into Jordan Peterson and Buddhism.
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Huh?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You do not have a problem with women. You have a problem seeing your own value. No way I'd let a woman do half the things your gf has done to you. She'd have been gone a long time ago. You need some self respect.
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Only a matter of time before she leaves him and her plan comes in full effect. She runs away with his wallet being strung behind her. Randall asks "why would she want to do something devastating like that and break apart our family?" Asking this question as if she's a rational thinking female... this woman sounds like she has BPD and HPD. A cluster b. She's either going to up and leave, or she'll stay with him forever and just cheat on the side. I don't know her personally so that makes it even harder for me to say. Neither outcome is exactly favorable for Mr. Randall...Mr. Beta Provider...