"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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Gf's jealous friend trying to ruin my relationship!?

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Women are b*tches. My relationship with my gf is great, but her best friend is now single and wants to ruin it. The advice from this very site is true! She wants my gf to be single with her. It's not my fault she can't get a guy what the hell.

In short, she bought my gf a 140$ christmas preasant and claims that half of it will get me really pissed off. Aside from that she whines that the never hang out nemore etc.. don't look at me though, my gf always says she'd rather hang out with me anyway, so it's not a problem yet, but I can definetly see where this is going. Do I just ignore it? say something? suggestions?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tough situation. If you ignore it it could develop into a problem. If you confront it it could seem like you are paranoid or insulting her best friend. My advice would be to lightly bring up the situation to your girlfriend. Dont act paranoid or worried just inform her and keep your cool.
 
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I also had that. Dont let Your girl chill with this 'friend' an say that it looks bad for You. Dont ignore situation because it may get very dangerous. Also try to diss the friend a little like saying 'damn shes still alone? She has really bad character propably'''
 
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I would just relax, and just see how it would turns out. Try not to think of this so negatively becuase she might be doin that cus she likes you, its untelling but being relax and comfortable with any sitiation your in is rare!
 
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your gf doesnt like that chick either and is just being nice to her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Just be calm through the "storm".....Handle things strategically. Be calm about it...just talk to the gf of your gf...in a calm fashion....just let her know that, " your girl is 'yours' and that there is nothing she can do to break you two up."
 
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Well this chick is her best friend so they are gonna keep hangin out. But it turned out 2 not be that big of a deal anyway. Her friend gave her her preasents today and mine is gonna be just as good if not better anyway. She would still always rather hang out with me (like we are tomorrow) and her friend isn't mean enough to actually try to break us up. I'll probably just chill for now.

I've got some other sh*t since we work together, so there's plenty of problems there.. look for another post about that sumtime soon..
 
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