I dont want to cause gals to cheat on their bf's but since every single girl worth knowing at my school has one its kinda a situatuon im stuck in. Is there any way to just keep it casual but maby up your IL enouth that she will see me as a better choice to what she has now? Right now the one i would like to get to know has a bf on a long distance setup that doesnt do any work on his part. (she is always going to him to see him and he never makes an effort to at least visit once in a while. (baseball player))..
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
GF with BF's...
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Maby but the reason she told me was he was a baseball player with little time off in the past. now he didnt make the team (or starters or whatever you call it i can give a hoot about baseball) but since he has time now he still wont visit, and she said she is getting tired of it. Heck she is going out (not sure if its a full date or homework help like what i did) with some guy in her english class with the buck teeth she likes to talk about. So im guessing she is kinda looking around. I just need to rid myself of this nice guy to walk over and start being a bit more djish... just takes practice and time.. Though im wondering if i blew it already and should move on. I did pick up a friend and was bored stiff so we drove up to her work (starbucks) to grab a drink. (using my friend kinda as an excue why i went up ther and heck i do like the drink i ordered) When she saw me she said "long time no see" (she has a class with me 2 hrs earlier and I knew she would be workind) so i dono if that was a good thing or a bad thing. Sucks also because she is kinda hard to read and i would really like to move on this somehow. Heck she sits in front of me in class and i get to stare at her neck and cheek as we listn to calculas crap. Would like to say something or do something without her pulling awway jsut not sure what to do first lol.....
Maby but the reason she told me was he was a baseball player with little time off in the past. now he didnt make the team (or starters or whatever you call it i can give a hoot about baseball) but since he has time now he still wont visit, and she said she is getting tired of it. Heck she is going out (not sure if its a full date or homework help like what i did) with some guy in her english class with the buck teeth she likes to talk about. So im guessing she is kinda looking around. I just need to rid myself of this nice guy to walk over and start being a bit more djish... just takes practice and time.. Though im wondering if i blew it already and should move on. I did pick up a friend and was bored stiff so we drove up to her work (starbucks) to grab a drink. (using my friend kinda as an excue why i went up ther and heck i do like the drink i ordered) When she saw me she said "long time no see" (she has a class with me 2 hrs earlier and I knew she would be workind) so i dono if that was a good thing or a bad thing. Sucks also because she is kinda hard to read and i would really like to move on this somehow. Heck she sits in front of me in class and i get to stare at her neck and cheek as we listn to calculas crap. Would like to say something or do something without her pulling awway jsut not sure what to do first lol.....
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alright I got a couple of things for you.
the first. Calculus isn't crap. Take it back. And you stare at her neck? Kinda creepy.
The second how old are you guys?
The third. FrankWank has a good point. She tells you about her boyfriend who she is tired of.
BUT
she is sitting around talking about her boyfriend, who pisses her off, to you. She obviously likes him.
I would suggest, as much as I hate this response, that you click on the link in the upper-right hand corner of this page and read the bible. It is long as hell. But so were most of the required readings in high school english class, at least this will have a positive influence on your life. I would also suggest popping your question into the search function here and you will find the answer to this fairly easily.
the first. Calculus isn't crap. Take it back. And you stare at her neck? Kinda creepy.
The second how old are you guys?
The third. FrankWank has a good point. She tells you about her boyfriend who she is tired of.
BUT
she is sitting around talking about her boyfriend, who pisses her off, to you. She obviously likes him.
I would suggest, as much as I hate this response, that you click on the link in the upper-right hand corner of this page and read the bible. It is long as hell. But so were most of the required readings in high school english class, at least this will have a positive influence on your life. I would also suggest popping your question into the search function here and you will find the answer to this fairly easily.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
ya
Ok calculus isnt crap... The algebra to do it though is lol. I suck at math so ya..
Im 19, she is 18. I have to admit I like gals over 19 becasue the 18 or lower just seam to young and immiture for me to waste my time. Im slightly seeing this from her but not as much as most of the youngins that I have seen around here. (also I may seam young but being 19 I already have 2 years and my AA from this college. Last semester before I head off to a 4 year college.)
She has a nice face, eyes, and neck... She doesnt reveal much more than that lol. (and hair is nice to)
Ya your probably right about the BF issue.. Still It feals like she is trying to get over him but well ya she still loves him. ohwell. And yes im reading the bible. But like the real one its a long process.
Ill probably drop this one soon but since all my classes are like 1:10 Girl : Guy ratio its kinda slim pickins.
Ok calculus isnt crap... The algebra to do it though is lol. I suck at math so ya..
Im 19, she is 18. I have to admit I like gals over 19 becasue the 18 or lower just seam to young and immiture for me to waste my time. Im slightly seeing this from her but not as much as most of the youngins that I have seen around here. (also I may seam young but being 19 I already have 2 years and my AA from this college. Last semester before I head off to a 4 year college.)
She has a nice face, eyes, and neck... She doesnt reveal much more than that lol. (and hair is nice to)
Ya your probably right about the BF issue.. Still It feals like she is trying to get over him but well ya she still loves him. ohwell. And yes im reading the bible. But like the real one its a long process.
Ill probably drop this one soon but since all my classes are like 1:10 Girl : Guy ratio its kinda slim pickins.