Gf/Wife throwing extreme tantrum

[misoup]

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=PEPoO08IMog

My new gf of 8months has a similar meltdown in the car once and I totally cannot stand her behavior, (maybe my gf is not as extreme as the wife in the video, the somehow the same)

How do you guys deal with it when your gf/wife does this?

I do know many guys will say NEXT..

But I partially find that it's my fault that I didn't train her well enough..

I remember my ex wife was authoritative towards her ex bf.. But when she's together with me for the 6years of marriage, she didn't have any bad attitude towards me and always listens to me.

Seems that girls tend to treat different guys differently. No?


Btw, my gf's hot (HB8) and she knows it

 

[.Bing.]

Ignore her. If she has another meltdown next.

 

[Moroder]

But I partially find that it's my fault that I didn't train her well enough..

You can train animals.

 

[El Payaso]

What does your gf being hot have to do with you putting up with her sh*tty attitude? That's where your problem lies...

 

[Peña]

Tell her to shut up.

What does your gf being hot have to do with you putting up with her sh*tty attitude? That's where your problem lies...

Hot is an excuse to be treated like a b!tch.

 

[zorg198]

Your girlfriend can be HB200 from what i concern. when she pulls this sh1t behavior. tells a lot about her. all video she never stop whining like a kid.
Damn... ruined my lunch.

Joe.

 

[Navigator]

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=PEPoO08IMog



How do you guys deal with it when your gf/wife does this?

I would have her see a psychiatrist.

 

[Desdinova]

This is what happens when AFCs spoil women.

 

[Cremasta]

Reminded me of this - probably the best reaction (first 10 seconds)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IEFFQoSL5IY

 

[expos]

I remember my ex wife was authoritative towards her ex bf.. But when she's together with me for the 6years of marriage, she didn't have any bad attitude towards me and always listens to me.

Then why did you guys break up?

 

[Between_The_Lines]

What I'd be interested in if I were in your shoes is the obvious discontinuation of any more tantrums, and some sign of self-awareness regarding her childish behavior. Did she do this OP? Did she say something down the line of "sorry, I don't know why I yelled like that back there", or "sorry, I was just stressed from something that happened at work earlier today"?

How much that would help to prevent her from repeating the same sort of behavior again in the future, I don't know, but it might help. If she said nothing that indicated she was out of line, you may have to strongly consider dropping her the next time she pulls something like that, otherwise a new precedent will begin to set in and, before you know it, you will find yourself making one sweet little bed of rusty nails to lie on so long as you are with her.

 

[logicallefty]

My last ex that I dumped was 41 and acted just like this. WOW. This brought out some really bad memories for me, but still a good overall post on the OP's part and something every man needs to see. Either so he can avoid thinking it's oK to be with a woman like this, or appreciate the woman he has that doesn't behave this way.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

My ex wf had some issues but damn I've never experienced anything like that!

Attitude like that, sh*t zomething is definitely off. Wow

Imagine that, it's your day off from work just wanna relax get sum sh*t done after a long work week of work BS & then you have to deal with that! FUBAR

 

[misoup]

Then why did you guys break up?

Long story short.. That period of time. I took her for granted and mistreated her and eventually had an affair with another girl.

Till today I still regretted..

 

[expos]

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=PEPoO08IMog

My new gf of 8months has a similar meltdown in the car once and I totally cannot stand her behavior, (maybe my gf is not as extreme as the wife in the video, the somehow the same)

If her meltdown is anything similar to the woman in that video, I would terminate your relationship with her. You are only 8 months in and not married to her, do you want another 8 months, 8 years, or 80 years of this? I think you can do better.

How do you guys deal with it when your gf/wife does this?

I do know many guys will say NEXT..

But I partially find that it's my fault that I didn't train her well enough..

My ex-wife got pretty close to the anger levels in that video. Notice I say EX. I ditched her after 3 years of lousy behavior, used condoms when I did bang her (which is very infrequent), and stopped letting her abuse me by either walking away (not effective) or standing there and staring into her eyes and letting her b!tch and get her point across, to which I responded abruptly and ended each argument with a really calm demeanour by stating "case closed?"

It is not your duty to train a woman or to correct problems that are inherent. A good woman, one who is respectful, is normally raised correctly and carries a level of respect towards people she really cares about. A good woman will make your life better. She also treats family, friends, boyfriends all the same.

The woman in the video is spoiled brat, who obviously got away with a lot of lousy behavior, and no one seemed to step up to her in her life. I imagine she had a enabling mother or father ..... and the husband in that video didn't stand much of a chance in making that relationship work.

Btw, my gf's hot (HB8) and she knows it

Good, then wish her arrogant ass well with her next boyfriend. I'm sure he'll enjoy the abuse as well as you did.

 

[Stugots26]

Guy in the video should have stopped the car and told her that she can either act like an adult, be loving and respectful, or get out of the car and walk.

 

[salinechow]

"I have thought about this and I want you to listen to me. I have developed a real love for you. (insert a few good qualities you like about her). OK? (get her to agree in some way)( touch her hand lovingly) (Now withdraw) The other day in the car was behavior completely unacceptable for any person to endure from any other person. Especially in the confines of a relationship. The next time I see something like that brewing in you I will bring it to your attention and I hope you can control yourself so we can address whatever concerns you. You must know though, and I mean this, as much as I care for you, I love myself just as much. I was raised to treat others with respect and DEMAND it in return. Sadly, hunny, if that kind of outburst happens again it will be the last time you ever communicate with me in anyway, and that is how you will be remembered. Thanks for listening. I know it was a one time thing. Thank gosh. (kiss)

You say that and mean it...Trust me, you will have gotten her attention.

I reprogramed a girl with a paragraph very similar to that. Never saw her act like that again. Other problems came about in the 4 years but I never saw her act anything close to that sh!t again. Years later, (I was actually out with her 2 weeks ago, that’s not when she said it though) she told me, I actually scared her because I was so nice about it. She thought I might hit or kill her if she did it again because I was so calculating, sincere and firm. HAhaha. I would never of course. Yet, when they meet their match and someone dematerializes them always getting put up with, and getting results from that psyco sh!t, it makes them wonder just who the hell you are.

If it dosent work. Walk. She is low quality and cannot be helped. You’ll end up on an episode of C.O.P.S.

 

[Epimanes]

What your sex rank relative to hers? I believe if you have a higher sex rank than your gf she wouldn't pull her bs as much. That being said ALL women (depending on where they are in their cycle) will act hormonally at some point. If you let it bother you.. She will see it as weakness and continue to use that tactic... More so be aloof when she gets hormonal.. Disengage and don't engage when she gets that way but don't be all butt hurt over it either. Just go do something awesome and don't worry about her. She will come around.

Of course you could tell her she obviously needs a good fvcking (its scientificly proven women on their cycle absorb mens hormones from his semen and it calms them during their hormonal week before they bleed). Obviously DON'T cvm in her if your worried about pregnancy. My wife already proved this theory with me. When she's pissy she needs my testosterone and seeks it out.. It works.

Epi

 

[El Payaso]

What your sex rank relative to hers? I believe if you have a higher sex rank than your gf she wouldn't pull her bs as much. That being said ALL women (depending on where they are in their cycle) will act hormonally at some point. If you let it bother you.. She will see it as weakness and continue to use that tactic... More so be aloof when she gets hormonal.. Disengage and don't engage when she gets that way but don't be all butt hurt over it either. Just go do something awesome and don't worry about her. She will come around.

Of course you could tell her she obviously needs a good fvcking (its scientificly proven women on their cycle absorb mens hormones from his semen and it calms them during their hormonal week before they bleed). Obviously DON'T cvm in her if your worried about pregnancy. My wife already proved this theory with me. When she's pissy she needs my testosterone and seeks it out.. It works.

Epi

Lol. Scientifically proven by Dr Epimanes with a research subject of just one couple.

 

[Epimanes]

Here.. Let me do a quick google search for you...

http://www.the-generous-husband.com/2011/03/19/is-semen-good-for-her-mood/

There is one link for you among many. I'm not kidding..