"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This is sloot territory which I'm familiar with. However my previous relationship...well let's just say ffm 3way wasn't in the cards haha...so my current is interested and has broached the subject. I joke back and say things like i have been on the hunt for fresh meat to bring home to her. She gets fake mad about me saying I'm speaking to other females but I know she is open to sex with a girl with me.

Been seeing gf for about 4 months. It's a committed relationship. She does everything for me nd is very submissive. Also she is 21. I haven't dated a girl older then 21 in a few years. Anyway I feel guilty talking to other women but knowing I have a free pass so to speak helps me out...so any advice
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I can only speak from experience and I've had two threesomes in my life. While I enjoyed them at the time, they turned out to be huge red flags.

The first one was with a girlfriend I had been in a relationship with for about five years at the time. The other woman was a friend of hers. Shortly after that my then girlfriend suggested that we have sex with other people. I agreed. Here's the kicker: I suggested to her that we tell the people we sleep with that we as a couple are ok with it. She was vehemently against that. Lol. Needless to say that relationship died a few months later.

Second threesome was with a woman a few years ago I met on my first and only stint on an online dating site.
After a few dates I picked up some red flags and began to withdraw. She called me one night out the blue and told me a friend from overseas was visiting and they wanted to share me.
It was a great night. There were promises of doing this kind of thing regularly. I ended up walking away. Ran into her a few months later and we had lunch together and she told me she had bipolar disorder. It clicked and I realized the threesome probably happened during a manic phase of hers.
While I know people with bipolar disorder who have it under control and are high functioning..based on my past experiences, it's not the kind of person I want for a long term partner.

Saying all this to say, be careful with the threesome suggestions. They're not always as sincere as they may seem.
 
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it's pretty much a red flag, plus the "she's a submissive 21 year old"

End well this shall not.

As above suggested, do teh 3some before you get devalued
 
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Always stick it in your girl first before you do the other one. Doing it the other way causes problems.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Threesomes are great the first time ; by the sixth or seven time MEH. Too much work :)
 
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