"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Gf walked oit

Firestar786

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Long story short:

Gf has been disrespecting me for a couple weeks now.
Tried to talk to her but no change - she's not being polite but always seems to be angry.
Today I called her out on her disrespect and she gave me the silent treatment.
I shouted at her to give me a response and she went nuts saying she gave me an answer(but she was quiet ??)
She then said she wanted to leave.
I said Ive seen and heard this before but you come back.
She said no not this time.
So I sAid ok give me my promise ring and she did.
I threw it out of the window And she went even more nuts.

She then said she's leaving and proceeded to get her items.
I got her bag and threw it near the door.
She then punched me repeatedly till I had to grab her and pin her down to prevent further attack.
She then left and got a taxi home.

Anybody come across a girl so psycho?
What to do next because in 1 week + she'll be calling to get back with me.

Advise ?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Desdinova

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Gf has been disrespecting me for a couple weeks now.
Tried to talk to her but no change - she's not being polite but always seems to be angry.
Today I called her out on her disrespect and she gave me the silent treatment.
This should have been the end. If she gives you the silent treatment, leave her to be silent. Go do something else.

I shouted at her to give me a response and she went nuts saying she gave me an answer(but she was quiet ??)
She then said she wanted to leave.
I said Ive seen and heard this before but you come back.
She said no not this time.
So I sAid ok give me my promise ring and she did.
I threw it out of the window And she went even more nuts.

She then said she's leaving and proceeded to get her items.
I got her bag and threw it near the door.
All this crap was unnecessary.

She then punched me repeatedly till I had to grab her and pin her down to prevent further attack.
Instead of pinning her down, you should have called the police.

What to do next because in 1 week + she'll be calling to get back with me.
Easy... Don't get back together with her. You're not her slave.
 

VladPatton

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Lock the goddamn door, son!

...and put that lil slidey chain thing on, too!
 

Skyline

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My question is...

... What the hell is a promise ring and why did you give it to this girl?
 

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Frayzer said:
My question is...

... What the hell is a promise ring and why did you give it to this girl?
its like a ring you give a chick when you promise to be faithful to each other, be with each other and all that good business.

its basically a cheaper not committal form of an engagement ring.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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GS750

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Wow drama. She hit you? Show that chick the door...
 

captain55

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OP how long have you guys been dating for? How has she been disrespecting you? be specific..

Also where did you meet her? If it was an online chick forget it don't even waste your time
 
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