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GF telling me her boss flirts with her

PoZest

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Quite often when I see my gf she tells me how someone flirted with her that day at work or what compliment or chat up line someone said. I don't know if it's a good thing or not that she tells me, and I normally just laugh and don't ask anything about it.
This time she said that her boss, who she works with almost every day in a small bar, was being very weird and flirty and picking her up and stuff and saying she was fit and other things. I didn't ask her anything else but that's the only bit I know.
I normally don't care, but with it being her boss at work I thought it was a bit weird/worrying maybe.
Should I act any different about this or just assume it is nothing due to the fact that she tells me?
I felt like telling her not to tell me next time, but I'm not sure if that's a good idea...
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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PoZest said:
Quite often when I see my gf she tells me how someone flirted with her that day at work or what compliment or chat up line someone said. I don't know if it's a good thing or not that she tells me, and I normally just laugh and don't ask anything about it.
This time she said that her boss, who she works with almost every day in a small bar, was being very weird and flirty and picking her up and stuff and saying she was fit and other things. I didn't ask her anything else but that's the only bit I know.
I normally don't care, but with it being her boss at work I thought it was a bit weird/worrying maybe.
Should I act any different about this or just assume it is nothing due to the fact that she tells me?
I felt like telling her not to tell me next time, but I'm not sure if that's a good idea...
Inappropriate for another man to have his hands on your woman.

And why isn't she bothered by this?
 

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The solution here is simple, get another woman who will flirt with you that your girlfriend knows about. Her little AW episode will quickly end along with an attitude change. If things continue to go down the same path, you can dump your girlfriend while having a new plate.
 

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Leprechaun2013 said:
The solution here is simple, get another woman who will flirt with you that your girlfriend knows about. Her little AW episode will quickly end along with an attitude change. If things continue to go down the same path, you can dump your girlfriend while having a new plate.
Wiser words couldn't been written.
It may seem like an immature or even stupid thing to do but it works.

You don't tell her about the other girl(s), she will sense it. I remember dating another girl during my LTR, my LTR would start a fight over something and I'd tell her I have to go, hang up and go make out with my other girl;
My LTR would later call me and apologize and offer to meet and have sex. They feel that you're IN CONTROL!

About the other guy, it goes without saying that once you two break up she'll **** him multiple times and there's nothing you can do about it. Don't try to split them up, tell her that it's so nice of him to ask you out, acknowledge that there are maybe millions of guys thinking of her and only a few build up the courage to do something about it, but you can't beat up every guy thinking of her because you'd be the only guy left no?
You also find it really flattering that other guys want her, it reassures you that you made a good decision picking her to be your girlfriend.

And another thing: if your girl gives you tons of drama, drop her. She isn't worthy of your constant concerns.
 
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