"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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GF talks about her body to a long time guy friend..

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illmatic1005

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the other day my gf talked to a guy about her butt and how she wants to show him...and i got pissed and confronter her and she said it was a joke from a long time ago

this guy and my gf are longtime friends, way be4 me..

but my gf still talked about her body to another guy and it pisses me off

what do u guys htink about this?

she said it was only a joke from a long time ago and that she didnt think it would hurt me...but she said it would hurt her if i talked about my body to some other girl as a joke
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If she isn't into you then she isn't into you. I've been in that situation a few times and from my experience the best thing to do is just sit on your hands and keep cool about it.

Girls like to feel sexy and like attention, perhaps you aren't giving her enough and she's sending you a message?

Whatever you do, don't act jealous or insecure(getting angry about it), girls really look down on guys who display those qualities, and its a surefire way to drive a stake between you and her.

Act like it never happened and joke about it. Use your own judgment to decide where to draw the line, and instead of getting angry at her, let her know calmly that you'll dump her ass on the curb(and no coming back) if she plays you.

If he's a long time friend, then chances are he's in her LJBF zone and using him for attention/validation/whatever.

cheers
 
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